Upon the table a picture book lay,
capturing all the years gone by.
Each one having so much to say,
some bring a tear to green eyes.
Pictures of babies, bundles of joy,
a first tooth, first step, first smile.
How I miss my first born baby boy,
as I stare at his photos for a while.
A mother and child, a special bond,
unbroken in the sadness of death.
Never knowing what lies beyond,
when God gives us very first breath.
At His will, how I watched you grow,
to become a fine young man indeed.
Then came unexpected tears to sow,
as my grief filled heart would bleed.
You are home now, there you wait,
with infectious smile from ear to ear.
At peace you await at Heaven's gate,
knowing that someday I will appear.
Till then I wrap my thoughts around,
snapshots of warm sweet memories.
To feel you near in fluttered sound,
among butterflies you return to me.
Written for my son Brian who passed away on March 2, 2007. I love and miss you.
Butterfly Symbolism
by Vlinder
There is a Native American legend that says, " If you have a secret wish, capture a butterfly and whisper your wish to it. Since butterflies cannot speak, your secret is ever safe in their keeping. Release the butterfly, and it will carry your wish to the Great Spirit, who alone knows the thoughts of butterflies.
By setting the butterfly free, you are helping to restore the balance of nature, and your wish will surely be granted."
They are a symbol of change, joy, and color. (There is also an association of Faerie folklore with butterflies.) Their flight appears as dancing, and a reminder not to take things so seriously.
They have a sense of lightness and joy. They are reminders to get up and move, for if you can move you can dance, and dance brings joy.
The butterfly is a powerful symbol for transformation. It leaves the safety of the cocoon in it's new form. This is an excellent image for anyone contemplating, or in the midst of a major change. A butterfly is a strong symbol of metamorphosis, with distinct stages.
The butterfly is a reminder to make changes when the opportunity arises. Change and transformation are inevitable for us all, but it does not have to be traumatic.Butterfly symbolism is also closely tied to the idea of spirits and souls. It has been used in many religions and cultures.
Psyche is the Greek word for both soul and butterfly. The belief was that butterflies were human souls searching for a new reincarnation, which gave the creature uncanny and sometimes ominous connotations. This symbolism was also used in early Christianity as a symbol of the soul. Celts thought that women became pregnant by swallowing butterfly souls. These butterfly-souls flew about seeking a new mother.
Other cultures believed that spirits of the dead took the form of white butterflies. In northern Europe to see one flying at night was a warning of death, and some said that the soul-butterfly's ability to leave the body in sleep accounts for dreams.
The Chinese believed a jade butterfly suggested a wedding of souls, making it an appropriate gift for the groom to give to his bride