Lies… Betrayal… and Heartbreak
Why do men lie?
Why we say we are the realest and the best man alive?
Why do we allow… to let ourselves be defiled by the prevalence of flesh?
Why do we work hard to gain the woman we love, only to turn to someone new and fresh?
Why when we get caught, we still live in denial?
Why can’t we settle disputes among ourselves respectively instead of having domestic disputes that go to trial?
Why do we frolic over what another woman wears and what she shows, when your woman at home can wear the same?
Why do we hit below the belt, and constantly battle one another like it’s a game?
Why so much betrayal?
What happen to putting matters confidentially together on the table?
We are grown mature individuals, why can’t we just be truthful?
We already were born into a world of sorrow, so let’s come together to sow and reap something fruitful
When we love, we love each other REAL HARD, and everything is great
When we fight, we are like strangers out on a date
One night of ecstasy that violently turns to rape
The struggle… the fist swinging, tongues of sword slashing
Turns into a stumble… someone’s bleeding, and there heart is crashing
It’s dark as a jungle… someone screaming, and then there’s a loud crash and…
You feel a huge rumble… a team… you get tagged like a swarm of bees and lights flashing
You hear…. CLINK-CLINK! Read your right’s and tossed in the patty wagon
You wish this was a dream… given a second chance… provide answers to all of her questions
When you should have mani…fested, the right actions into time of a suitable one on one session
When the essence of passion is displayed and you grow to learn from each other as a lesson
See I’m stressing this aggression to be let go in time when we need reflection
What brought you two together?
The obstacles and path you took to overcome the stormy weather
The spice and spontaneous actions that made you two discover the word “Forever”
How you treated each other as best friends with kindness and endeavor to keep things better
But when there are lies, betrayal and heartbreak
That’s when we need to strive to break from the path that is fatal, as we all see today
So us men need to check our pride, love what we have by our side, a woman that was and still is complimentary not supplementary
And not to use what swings below and we dive off to an unknown destiny where we are liable to get loss forever mentally and physically die
Author notes
this is really true on how I Think, i can't speak for ALL men maybe most, or few or whatever, but i feel we have to get back to how we first were, when we first saw that gorgeous woman walk in and it took our breath away. we did everything we could to get her. now we have to do everything we have to keep her... forever. i tend to forget the basic small things that really means a lot to a woman. we all do, do to getting to comfortable when you been with this person for 4 to 12 years or longer. in a sense you start to take things for granted.
as far as the fighting goes it doesn't have to be this extreme. Proverbs 21:9 says, "better it is to dwell upon a corner of a roof than with a contentious wife..." or man. in other words settle disputes the right way. why hit someone you love? if you have something that constantly kept getting into your eye, would you take a knife and pluck your eye out so you don't be bother anymore? be real! use common sense and get to the root of the problem. if it doesn't work, leave. you got one life and PLENTY fish that's in the sea
by the way i wrote this entire piece in a five minute break tonight when i was at work.
What did you think
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that's Y i said that you're awesome......your writes are the truth......hit everyones roof totally speaking the god's honest truth.....you're a bad mamma jamma.....talk'n old school.....is that still cool......LOL......love peace & harmony
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AWESOME ! iLOVE iT !
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wow lots of honestly hard questions to answer. I wish I knew the answer to them. That way the hurt would be less.
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This was really beautiful... I wish all men would think as you do.
This is an amazing write.
Thank you for sharing this piece.
-Kati Anne
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I absolutely love this and I love your Author notes too. This is a very great write. Thanks so much for sharing it!
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Such a beautiful philosophy and a way to live. You portrayed this with such a uniqueness that I love this write. Sounds like a rap?? Is it? I would love to hear this sung. Keep on penning like this and you will go far. This is so beautiful.
Jade
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You captured the essence of what I have been writing about although we lead different lives and lifestyles relationships are relationships. I find men, women or just anyone lie because that's how they get through life with low self esteem and low self image. Arguments happened when they feel that image has been attacked by someone close when as you say things should then be put on thetable like adults. I feel passionate about this subject and could literally write a two page comment but I won't. Until we as people learn to love ourselves we can love another because when disputes happen we won't feel attacked or like masculinity is being questioned and we gotta either "show or stuff" or "hide behind a machismo mask" ok I'm done. Good job!
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where have you been my whole life lol... and why haven't we met yet? I wonder these things allllllll the time. Women nowadays are not the same either. Unfortunately I think the fabric of our society has become increasingly thin. It seems that people just want to play the game and my question is at what point do we grow out of that? This was a wonderful write, very thought provoking indeed!
Peace and love
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Never when we live in a soc0iety that doesn't honor growth and commitment but instead staying young single and promiscious. I have been the best thing that happened to someone and they left me searching for what was in their face becaise of a juvenile mentality that is fed by society that corrupts our mindsinto thinking we can never be satisfied. To have as much fun as we want. I'm 33 my last lover is about to turn 31 and acts 19 its a shame. It really is. You gon f___ around and miss the love of your life f_____ing around with that BS. Cause a true genuine person with esteem and prestige not gon stand for it (when I say you, I don't mean mean YOU
. I'm done. Oooooo I get passionate about this!!!
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