The Basics
i. Full name: Stefanie Laura McCaig, shall we say.
ii. Gender: Female -- last time I checked.
iii. Height: 5''2'
iv. D/O/B: 25th of January, 1990
v. Birth Place: Northern Ireland.
vi. Sexual orientation: Bi-curious, I think. I often question, sometimes 
vii. Relationship Status: In a Relationship.
viii. Current residence (country): England.
ix. Current Employment: I'm a student, so I'm still hording money from the government. Being registered blind I get disability living allowance and IB as well, so I get extra. I deserve it mind 
x. Left or Right handed?: Lefty. I think I'm the only one on this site, everyone else seems a righty.
Drugs & Alcohol
i. Do you smoke? Why/why not? No I don't smoke and I'm proud of it. I hate the taste of smoke and I just don't like the idea it heightens the risk of getting cancer. Why do something you hate the smell and taste of and that would make you ill? It seems rather a stupid thing to do, on the whole.
ii. Do you drink? Why/why not? I do drink yes. Some times in my life I've drunk loads, sometimes I don't drink for ages it depends. I like drinking though when the mood arises.
iii. Have you ever done illegal drugs? Yes, I have.
iv. Ever been addicted to, or still are addicted to them? No, I haven't and am not currently addicted to anything, except doing things that generally turn out bad, no matter how hard I try.
v. Do you know anyone that has been permanently affected by these substances? I do know a couple of people who have been, yes.
vi. Are you for or against alcohol? I'm for it, if you can handle it and drink it responsibly. Very few people can do these days it seems, though. But at the end of the day, it's your life, do it how you want to.
vii. If you do do drugs, what is the appeal? To relax, to escape. Same reasons as a lot of people do, I guess. Plus it somewhat heightens my sight and as I'm partially sighted, it makes me happier to see a little better. It also has helped with my backaches, so I like it. But I don't take it regularly or anything, as I know it isn't good for you.
viii. What's the worse you've ever done whilst under the influence? I think sleep with someone, who I actually don't like that much at all. Or perhaps just starting arguments with people and having to explain myself the next day.
xi. Have you ever drunk and driven? I can't drive, but if I could I doubt I would as I know what it would do to myself and others.
x. When did you have your first drink? I was probably about 5 or 6. My Mum and Dad thought that if they gave me a little at an early age, I wouldn't go out on my 18th and get absolutely hammered. This worked, actually. I only had one glass of wine on my 18th, so it just shows you that if you get taught responsible drinking, it does really help in general.
Family
i. Do you have any siblings and how many? I have 2 half sisters.
ii. What number child are you? 3, in all of us, the only one by both my Mum and Dad.
iii. What were your teen years like? They were so so, some real good bits something absolutely terrible parts.
iv. Do you get along with your family? Most of my family I do, but I don't get on with my youngest of my older sisters, she is a cow and ruined a lot of my childhood and would still ruin my adultho8od if she had her way. I am more close to my Mum's side of the family than my Dad's.
v. Did you have any major family drama's? We had a fair few to be honest, but we got through them as Mum, Dad, Claire and I are very close so we all supported eachother.
vi. Who was in your family? Mum, Dad, Claire, Charlene (until she was 16) and me.
vii. What customs did/do you have in your family? Just the usual, I suppose. We had no 'set' things to do.
viii. How often do you keep in touch with your family members? Mum and Dad, every day or other day. Claire, every couple of weeks, Charlene - never. Grandparents, aunts etc once or twice a month.
xi. Would you change your family if you could? No. They are who they are and I am happy with that and most of them I love unconditionally.
x. What was your family's wealth status? Did you live a privileged life? Struggled? Somewhere in between? We have always been medium to low, I think. Some parts of my life though we were struggling a lot, especially when I was really little. We would have to eat with plastic cutlery and stuff, so we were quite unlikely at that time. Now we are medium to low again. Isn't everyone nearly though, due to this recession?
Relationships && love
i. How long was your longest relationship? James was 21/2 years, Karl was nearly 2 years, Steven was 3 or 4 months and Stuey, the one I'm with now, is coming up to 11 months. These are the only 'proper' relationships I've been in. Some I've had a day or two relationship, but I don't really class them as such.
ii. Have you ever had an internet relationship? No and I wouldn't. I would flirt on the net, but never meet with someone unless someone else came along with me.
iii. Do you ever regret something you've done in a relationship? Yes, but everything happens for a reason I guess and at the end of the day, they weren't meant for me so... In a way, I'm glad.
iv. First kiss? (details). Ashley just... Planted one on me, didn't even know what he was doing until he done it. It was kinda horrible, really but oh well. I'd been kissed on the cheek before then but don't remember any 'kiss'. First kiss kiss, was with James at 14.
v. What would be your perfect date? Anything that involves the one I love would be my perfect date. Soppy, I know, but it's true.
vi. What's the most romantic thing you've ever done? Ever been done for you? I write poetry and letters to the ones I love, stay up all night for them, stroke their hair til they fall asleep etc. Most romantic thing was I was given a rose by Jordan. Just one single Red rose he picked himself. It was quite sweet, actually.
vii. Ever written a tribute poem for a love? (past or present) I certainly have, many of these, in fac.t
viii. Have you ever lied to get a better chance to be with someone? No. I've lied NOT to be with someone though.
ix. Have you ever had un-requited love? Hell yes, but isn't that life?
x. What is your best post-break-up-recovery-strategy? Hang with your best mates and watch lots of comedies that wil l make you laugh and take your mind off that idiot.
xi. Has a pick-up line ever been used on you? have you ever used a pick up line? They have been used on me, to my distress. I hate cheesyness most of the time but it can be funny. I never use them though, I don't think they work.
Sexual questions
i. What age did you lose your virginity? 17 years young
ii. Would you consider ever going a threesome? Maybe. But I would have to not be dating anyone in the threesome as I don't think the relationship would work after seeing them with someone else, to be honest. I would feel insecure and jealous.
iii. Do you prefer romantic or "impulse/rough" sex? It depends on my mood really, but I do like romantic sex, but not overly slow.
iv. Favourite position? Why? Oh I have a few and it depends on my mood really and what he wants to do.
v. Would you consider going gay? (or straight? or Bi? 
) I am bisexual anyway. Would I consider being lesbian? Yes, possibly. I would have to get more experience with a woman to know this for sure, though. Would I consider turning straight? Yes, this is more likely.
vi. Do you care about people's opinion on sexuality? Only the person I'm with. At the end of the day though everyone thinks differently and this is okay, but if people don't respect my views or the views of others, it's their problem, not mine.
vii. For or against gay marriage? Why/why not? For. Why not? Love is love, in any language.
viii. Do you like being in charge in the bedroom? No, I prefer him being in charge.
ix. What nationality has the sexiest accent? Italian oooh god yes.
x. Where's the most spontaneous place you'd try (or have tried) to do "it"? On a funfair ride... I'd try it, that is. I've never done it anywhere adventurous. Done it in my partners siblings bed, though. Kinda weird, huh? Oh wells.
Culture && religion && etc
i. Do you practice a religion? No, not a set religion. I don't disregard anyones religion, I don't see how anyone has that right.
ii. Are you superstitious? Not eally. There are a couple of things though...
iii. What are your thoughts on religion? I think that for the most part, religion is good as it gives people something to believe in and follow. However, when you enforce your religion onto someone else, that's when the problem arises. Plus, if you cause wars because of others religions, you're just being hateful and that isn't what anyones 'god' wants you to be.
iv. Would you change yourself into another religion because of a partner? No I certainly would not. They want to have me, they'll have me whatever they first fell in love with me as. Isn't that the point?
v. Do you believe in the horoscopes and the traits that go with them? Yes and no.
vi. How would you class yourself ethnicity wise? I'm White British.
vii. Is there any special rituals you undertake during the year? No. That was simple, huh?
viii. Any special festivals you attend? Again, nope.
ix. Are you prejudice against anyone? I don't think I am, but I can't honestly tell. Sometimes we are, without realising we are actually being prejudice.
x. Do you believe in the after life? Yes I do. There's definately something out there to go to, when this life is over.
xi. Are you optimistic or pessimistic or somewhere inbetween? I tend to be pessimistic, which is a shame as I'd like to be more optimistic, but I think it comes in my nature a little. I try to stay inbetween as much as I can though.
Travel && where you live
i. Where have you traveled? Oh God, this is going to be a long list. Ibiza, Wales, Northern Ireland, England, Italy, France, Czech Republic, Germany, Spain, Benadorme, Tunisia, Turkey uhh probably somewhere else, I can't remember.
ii. Where would you like to travel? Australia
iii. If you have traveled, what differences is there between your home town and where you traveled too? Lots, depending on the place you are referring to.
iv. What is there to do where you live? (Attractions for example) Quite a bit, as I live near the beach.
v. Is there any misconceptions about where you live? [eg, all aussie's where those stupid cork hats and wear thongs]. Hmmm not that I can think of, no. Except that not all Brits are posh, or drunkards.
vi. Is there some-where you wouldn't want to visit? Iraq. Sorry, but I value my life too much.
vii. if you were forced to be a refugee which country would you want to flee to? America
School && career
i. Did you enjoy school? Yes, for the most part.
ii. What kind of student were you? I was an average student, I would say.
iii. What would you do for fun? I would hang with my mates, go shops during breaks, make silly jokes during lessons...
iv. Are you still friends with anyone from that time in your life? A couple of people, yes.
v. Was there a teacher or teachers who had a particularly strong influence of your life? No, but a few that I got on with really well. I think my favourite was James though, he was so funny and a great form of entertainment. He did do Media, which is ironic
vi. What are you/did you major in and/or study? I'm taking Psychology and English Literature now. Next year doing final years in Psychology and English in College and also doing Sociology.
vii. Did you end up going into your chosen field of study? I don't know yet, I haven't got a job. Don't rush my life away!!!
viii. Do you wish you'd chosen a different career path? Not applicable, as of yet.
ix. If you could go back and change yourself from your school years, would you? I am who I am and although some parts of it where absolutely torture and actually quite horrible, it's made me a stronger person and for that, I would say nothing at all.
x. Do you actually like your job? No job yet.
xi. What did you want to do as a child? Being a psychologist/writer
xii. Any job you would hate to do? Cleaning loos? Ehh nah, something to do with money. I don't like how power hungry it makes people.
Interests
i. What is/are your favorite hobbies and pastimes? Reading, Writing, Swimming, Dancing && Singing, being a pain in the arse...
ii. What is your most treasured possession? My pets, although I don't own own them, I love them to death and they mean the world to me.
iii. What is your favorite color? Purple, hands down. Seconded by light blue and pink. I like Silver as well though. I DISLIKE gray, it's icky.
iv. What is your favorite food? Lasagne, Chilli, Cottage Pie
v. What, if anything, do you like to read? I like true life stories, I like psychology based stuff and crime stuff, like criminal profiling and the such. I also like fantasy and horror books.
vi. What is your idea of good entertainment (consider music, movies, art, etc.)? Music definately, but it varies on my mood. Comedy films, if done right and horror/fantasy films. I love doing pottery and claywork too and love painting. I like dancing as well and acting.
vii. How do you spend a typical Saturday night? In with my mates or parents, occassionally go out for a few drinks. Normally just stay in though, as my friends are boring as
viii. What makes you laugh? Some of my friends as they crack me up. Normally things that others overlook, or don't find funny. I have somewhat of a cruel sense of humour.
ix. What, if anything, shocks or offends you? There is very little that offends me. You'd have to work so ahrd to offend me, it's not even funny. Only things like child molestation and animal cruelty make me shocked or offended. Anything else really doesn't offend me, as I say, I can't reall ybe deeply offended. So much in fact, people find it rather odd.
x. How do you deal with stress? I normally black it out, listen to music loud, watch a comedy to make my mood a little better or just get grumpy and get on with life. It varies on the other emotions I'm feeling whilst being stressed.
Misc.
i. Are you addicted to any games? No, not now. I was addicted to Spyro as a child though. I loved that game, it was tres bien!
ii. What do you think a "woo-hoo" is? If yes, what, if not, what do you think? I don't know what it is. I'm guessing, something that makes you happy, like when you say WOOHOO when you're excited?
iii. What would you want to come up as topics in an interview? My opinions on things in life, some deep, thought provoking questions, questions people don't normally ask.
iv. If you could be famous for anything what would it be and why? Being a famous psychologist with an awesome piece of research that proves I am quite right or for writing an awesome novel, story or poem.
v. Do you think you'd have an interesting biography of your life? Interesting... Fairly. But I think I might need an editor. I'm not sure though, you decide
And finally;
anything else you'd like to add.
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No thanks, I'm alright. Thanks for allowing me to start blabbering on again
Oh some things you maaaay want to know :]
--I'm partially sighted
--I will accept anyone. Loving is what I do and without love, I'm nothing.
--I have a diverse appetite
--I lovelovelove hearts and stars.
--I'm very romantic. My boyfriend isn't, which sometimes makes me feel down as I like some spontaneous, beautiful and caring shows of affection.
--I hate innocence being taken away from kids. It breaks me when it happens as we grow up too quickly. I learnt about the world a lot earlier than I feel I should've and didn't really have a proper childhood. I wasn't abused as such, although my sister was verbally and sometimes psychically so - I just had to grow up with a sister with borderline schizophrenia and then I got touched up at 13, so I felt like I should've been given more of a chance at youth.
Anyways, I think that's it.
Enjoy :]
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