My love rant

I find it idiotic that the term is used so lightly when it’s supposed to be considered
such a strong term. The term itself is being considered useless. For me, I rather show it than say it because saying it could be meaningless, lying. Teenagers believe that they fall in love at such a young age, I do not believe that. I believe that they have feelings for each other. They just call it love. I will not call it hormones; I don’t think that that’s the correct explanation for it.

What is love?

There is no true definition for it because it’s considered different for everyone. People these days lie. They tell someone they love them for a variety of reasons. Some are because they want sex, they want to feel the same way the other person does, or think they do. They say it to make someone else happy but they’re not just lying to them. When you let those words pass your lips, you’re lying to yourself as well.

People seem to get offended when I share my opinion. They like to say that I wouldn’t know because I haven’t been in love. Well, how do they know that?

I do not use that term lightly, I do not blurt out that term because I’m in the heat of a moment and I may not mean it. When it’s said you shouldn’t want to take it back. There are words that I do not say because when I say them I mean them and again, I rather show you I mean it then say that I do.

I haven’t been in love?

Well, I do not tell guys that I love them. If I were to be in a relationship, if I were to have been in 4, I don’t think that I would have said I love you to any of my partners.  I’ve had strong feelings for guys and because I have those feelings, that doesn’t mean that the first explanation of those feelings is love.

I find it annoying when people say that they’ve fallen out of love. Well if love is love then it wasn’t love to begin with, it was just feelings.  I do not believe that love should die because love is supposed to be something huge; it’s a big word that means a lot of things.

To me, saying you love me is saying that you would die for me, you would love me no matter what, you love who I am and who I’ll become. You’ll love the things I do and you’ll never get tired of them, you’ll stay loyal and never lie to me. You want a future with me and if there’s no me then there’s no future.

Love is so big, and it means so much. So when you’re teenagers, you’re telling me you’re capable of those feelings?

Well you may be but at that moment when you’ve barely experienced the world, and you’re feelings could change. You mean that to your first girlfriend, you’re ready to be married?

If there is chaos and there is no chance of both of you living in the end, would you die for that person you claim you love?

I believe that there are different levels of love, you can love a lot of people. You can tell them you love them but when you’re supposed to mean it. From what I mentioned above, if that’s not what you’re feeling then those words shouldn’t be spoken.
Of course everyone will not agree with me and I may not have explained it the way I want but this is an idea of what I mean. There are so many people throwing the word around as if it’s an everyday word like, “hello, or bye.”

I guess I’m still with the idea that it’s a big word, I guess it means something to me. I do not want someone to just tell me they love me if they don’t mean it.
I want them to mean what they say. I’m also not saying you have to be way older to know these feelings but when you’re young I don’t think that you get the meaning, that you understand it.

Yeah, teens may say that they will die without someone in their life, that they’ll never find love again.
They usually do. They usually find someone and treat them the same as the mate they had before. They date, within a week or a few months and they tell them they love them. Then again, when they breakup they say that they’ll die without them.
I’m also not trying to say that you can’t love someone in a short period of time, you can love them but you can’t be truly in love with them.

That’s my opinion.