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Families Chosen versus Biological


Santayana states "The family is one of nature's masterpieces. "
after surviving yet another Christmas Season, I feel I must agree more with George Burns who subscribed to the notion that "Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city."


My impassioned feeling for biological families has dimmed over the passage of years. Especially for mine, I love them all, but from a distance and one at a time.

I have though, necessity and distance created an extended family of choice for my grandson, including an impassioned but aging maverick artist grandfather, an interesting if eccentric  collection of aunts and uncles, and livestock.

 

The absence of physical and monetary obligations make gatherings much less stressful and and less expensive. I actually feel the same way about husbands and kids and well, I must be either a really bad person or a lunatic.Goats and sheep on the other hand love you anyway as long as you remember to feed them.

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The family is one of nature's masterpieces. ~George Santayana, The Life of Reason
Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.
George Burns (1896 - 1996)

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  • hoodoolover silver member
    January 17

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    I have to agree with alot of this, although now I am thoroughly entangled for the time being, and will be glad to extricate myself one day and slither back into a shady existence as far as blood family goes!


    • Draig aine gold member
      January 17
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      and so it goes

      all in cycles for me, now 3000 miles is good, though i miss my sister, we both love each other it just works etter when we are both where we need to be.


  • penman gold member
    January 12
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    Wonderful

    Very creative and well done. Best of luck in the contest.


  • Draig aine gold member
    January 9
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    My humble thanks

    sad bit true


  • reage
    January 9
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    Yes, I identlfy with this totally! Unconditional love, and no emotional blackmail.

  • Wonderful piece!!!

    That I can wholeheartedly relate too...
    Familiar in its sentiment & a relief washes over in reading as I realise I'm not the only one who hates getting dragged in to family politics & needless emotional BS...
    Keep up the good work...
    Well done!!!

    • Draig aine gold member
      January 9

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      Amen

      it is not a poem, because for me, my biological is toxic at close proximity, from a distance they are endurable, my chosen family, the nutty cluster of odd ducks in the old farm house make me smile every day.

      love you my friend, you are welcome at Foggytop farm if you ever make it to Nova Scotia, Sun lives too far away,

      Annie

  • Starz of Heaven gold member
    January 8

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    Your Quote :
    The family is one of nature's masterpieces. ~George Santayana, The Life of Reason

    Good luck

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