There is one word in the English language that causes pain and also healing. It causes lives to never be the same - both for the good and bad. That word is love.
So why is it that the one thing people crave the most is also the thing many people fear the most?
First off, you cannot love someone else if you don’t first love yourself. It’s near impossible. If you attempt to love someone when you have such a negative view of yourself, I don’t see a very bright outcome for the relationship.
Secondly, at most importantly, I don’t think enough people know what real love is. Real love is selfless and sacrificial. It isn’t about what you want or about what you can get out of the relationship, but how you can best and most genuinely show the person your desire to see them do well in life (and vice versa).
Love isn’t sex. Love is much more than gifts and saying “I love you”.
Love is a lifestyle and something that even in the hardest times, you prevail.
Nowadays, love has become a joke.
It is arguably the most misused word in any language.
You cannot understand love if you can’t grasp this - love is about accepting her without make-up, loving him when he doesn’t pick up his messes, and helping him/her through his/her time of strife and tears.
Lives could be saved and emotions settled if you knew the importance of real love in this broken and often lonely world.
Adding your comment:
liked it a lot and believed every single word,too but still don't know if my love is true or not 
