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disapointment


  sorry to dissapoint everybody but this is not a poem

this is the parent of the underage and deffiant girl that you know as " call me for real"...well i am for real and i am stopping her from having freedom to be on the internet and chatting and writing "poems"........although i feel she has great writing skills i feel she has some problems that need to be addressed .....so go ahead and blame me if you want i do not care ...meanwhile carry on without her ...because she is done...i feel the internet is not a safe place for her!

 

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  • camus gold member
    June 17, 2008

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    To the parent - I sense that your daughter has become linked with someone you disapprove of on this site and share your anxiety and indeed sympathize with you. I am a parent and would not choose the route you have chosen in barring her. I believe you have her best interests at heart but since she is a rebel, you are courting disaster.
    She will be even more defiant since you have humiliated and embarrassed her on here. I know why you are worried - I can tell she has been foolish and vulnerable but you should let her on here and monitor her with time restrictions.
    I think she will resent your public admonition of her here. I do feel for you, however. There's nothing easy about this ....Good luck - you are definitely going to need it.


  • pancake
    June 16, 2008

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    oh no :(

    i cant believe this. your daughter is amazing. this is not some "therapy" group at all, this is a group of people who like poetry. i understand that you have her best interests in heart and after all...you are her dad but i dont see the problem in this site...its just a site. whe can use her skills at home and at school...isnt that possible??? i dont understand at all...i HONESTLY have been victim to an oniline predator and it wasnt a nice experience but it wasnt in an enviroment like this...not at all. it was somewhere where all your details were displayed. you cant protect her forever shell soon be an adult and if you protect her its not helping her when she grows up. if you say it makes her tired and things maybe you should think about limiting her time! im really upset by this cause your daughter is lovely. though i understand that its your decision. and you can be on the internet and still have a life you know? its just a hobby like reading a book or watching tv....the internet is something everyone uses...if she knows all the dangers of predators (which im sure she does) then im sure shes mature enought to use them so noone stalks her or whatever. well if this really is good bye then say goodbye from x-tears-x and tell her shes a great writer. im very upset.


  • dream.love.live.
    June 16, 2008
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    no one ever said u had to let her do wat she wants


  • Terrible Soul
    June 13, 2008

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    You are a stupid and foolish father to think that you can prevent your child or deny them something. Every child has an outlet. And this just happens to be your child's outlet. Your daughter could be on the edge and this could be the only thing holding her together. You could be destroying her!! What if she commits suicide?! That's your flippin fault because you took away her only outlet. She's a teen and teens are very vulnerable! This could be all she has and you're taking it away. Some father you are. It's pretty obvious that you don't know what you're doing and pretty obvious that you don't mean your daughter well. Because if you did, if you knew how much this means to her, then you would let her be happy with it. You wouldn't take the only thing she's GOT away from her. But it's obvious, you don't have a clue. And when you lose her, don't cry, because no one will cry for you...


    • ucancallmereal
      June 15, 2008
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      problems?

      maybe you have the problems ...i think she is more stable mentally than what you think but if not then finding out that she was on this website is a good thing!(again i repeat! she had no permission ! she was falling behind in school and not sleeping well and waking up with headaches! i am glad! because these things are my problems not yours ! when you start labeling me and telling me i am headed for regrets you sound like a smart elic parent or psycologist ...are you either one? i was a teen one time and i was not so vulnerable...maybe that is why i do not know what i am doing! maybe i should let her do any thing she wants ...and not have any rules and every one will be ok........wrong!

      • Terrible Soul
        June 16, 2008
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        Um excuse me, no one ever said to let her do what she wants so you can fall back fyi. i don't have any problems ok? I HAVE a life just so you know and my life is flowing smoothly. Ok? I have money, I HAVE my education and I got top grades dude. So yah. I just happen to know my stuff. I don't have to be a parent to know that what you're doing is just OUT there. No one said you HAVE to be vulnerable. First of all, you didn't grow up with HALF of the things your child has nowadays and you were raised differently. You lived in a completely DIFFERENT time period. That was long time ago. This is today. No one does things like you did in your time so you can't run this like this is your life. You need to understand that your daughter isn't your replica! She is YOUR child! She's not going to be like you. All tough and hard. She's going to be different. And if you can't get that through your head, you and your daughter are going to have a difficult time. She's going to either hate and disconnect herself from you or she's going to love you and honor you for understanding and teaching her the rules of life. It can go both ways.

  • dream.love.live.
    June 12, 2008

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    lmao, you say we should get a life, your the one who keeps coming on this site to argue with us, and this site isnt about venting our problems its sharing out god given talents you make me laugh you sad sad little man


  • dream.love.live.
    June 12, 2008
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    i talked to her and she never told me any personal info


  • liduen silver member
    June 12, 2008

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    I understand why you feel this way, but please reconsider. I have really enjoyed chatting with ucancallmereal these past few months and am very dissapointed to see her go like this without even a "good-bye" As long as she doesn't put out personal information the internet is fairly safe, especially this site. I do understand your feelings, but still I wish you could reconsider.


  • The Great Disaster
    June 10, 2008

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    Online predators?
    I understand that this is what you believe that by cutting her off from the internet is protecting her, but it's not. She's an amazing writer, and you should let her continue doing what she loves. You should let her have some freedom. You can just monitor her on here maybe? There's other solutions. You don't have to be so drastic. Please, let her write.


  • glitterydoom
    June 10, 2008
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    I understand that your only trying to look out for your daughter, I know my dad feels the same way, just tell her I'll miss her and I'm sorry about what happened with the predator.
    she is a great writer and I agree that school work comes first, I've been told the same thing, just please don't make her stop writing, its a great outlet and helps sometimes


  • oh no its britt
    June 10, 2008
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    well beleive it or not i have delt with a online preditor. you dont have to beleive me but its true. yeah it was on myspace but i dont go there i stay here where no personal info is displayed. i kno what shes goin through. i went through it too. the guy is now behind bars. but this site i can garantee a safe website. my dad is just like you and he lets me stay on this site. this is probably the safest site on the internet. but she can use her gifted writin talent for homework and poetry also. i do agree wdith u at some standard, but i still dont think you should hold her against her will from writting poetry on this site or even dwriting poetry at all.


  • RawrSmileBabyPlz
    June 9, 2008
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    I like it
    its a very well written piece


  • DeathByFault
    June 9, 2008

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    im not agreeing with your choice but i understand that as a parent you want whats right for your child but then agian isnt freedom whats always right? letting someone do as they please to live with the consequences of their doing? although you have relinquished her abilities to use this site I'm sorry to say that no matter how hard you try you cant take away her ability to write though i doubt you want to. she will continue to write, knowing the spirit that she has even without the internet or paper and pencil. she will write mentally and remember in great detail every last word and when given that chance may it be a week or five years later she will put it on paper and find a way for the world to see it, to understand it, to live by it. though i know its not my place and im not even sure if you read these yourselves but could you please just let her read these posts...she means a lot to the people on here and im sure they mean a lot to her so please at least let her have the peace of mind that people are still thinking of her.

    • ucancallmereal
      June 10, 2008
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      ok great she is needed and liked by stangers on the internet ...and if its like you say than i am the parent and i am still responsible for her and she is too young and emotional over a problem from being on the internet and getting to know some one who is an overage predator! so what do you think of that kind of freedom?...maybe some day you may have a child and understand that you cannot let a 2 year old child have the freedom to play with a loaded gun...she was supposed to be using her writing skills for doing her homework instead of staying up all night using this format to talk ...i do not call this poetry it just seems strange to me ...but if she has inspired or befriended you that is fine but i do not want her to talk and get to know peope this way...that is my choice ...you are misundertanding my actions...but that is ok ...thanks for the kind thoughts ...she will know that..


  • ikeiloveyou
    June 9, 2008
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    wow..she is such a great writer too..please dont..shes got a gift from God and big pure heart.

    • ucancallmereal
      June 10, 2008
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      hello

      who is this? my daughter did not have permission to be on the internet writing and chatting with strangers all night and whoever she wants to anytime she wants ! gift or no gift ....she is supposed to be using her writing skills for her school work instead! .......you sound so clueless and and too young yourself! maybe you have too much freedom to be able to some of the things you do! people can be manipulated so easy online ! two words : online predator!

  • oh no its britt
    June 9, 2008

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    well some parent you are. i dont understand why you would take something like this away from her. she has so much talent. why would you do this. you can be safe on the internet. jus give her another chance. this is not right poetry is something shes good at. why would you make her stop?? if you were a good parent u would let her stay on and persue what shes doing. this girl had helped me through a lot and nodw dwhen i need to talk to her the most when my friend dies of cancer i cant talk to her about it. i appcrecaite it. thanks

    • ucancallmereal
      June 10, 2008
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      are you a parent? i am not taking away her talents ...you are just clueless ...i am responsible for her!... she had no permission to be on this site and she is supposed to be using her skills for her school work .....writng essays!..instead of staying up all night chatting to strangers!...if i am a good parent then i will look out for her ... you may see she has been hurt by someone recently ...but she failed to tell you who how old he was... or how they got to know each other!...i really do not consider this poetry ....it feels strange to me ....like a chat room to help each other or group therapy ...meanwhile...... "i appreciate it " sounds smarty to me .....but i cannot have her bear all of everyones burdens ...so you guys continue without her....meanwhile i sincerely feel for you and your friend ...sorry for your loss...


  • endless-lover silver member
    June 9, 2008

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    wow!
    that is really all i have to say
    im 16 years old and i have been on ap for a little over a year and nothing bad has ever came from this site only good there are people here to help and give eachother hope and love and friendship just fyi your takeing a great part of her away and as a parent thats kinda messed up! its simply poetry its simply her heart her words nothing less nothing more!you suck your angel rocks end of story!

    i love you dollie!

    • ucancallmereal
      June 10, 2008
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      really ?

      are you a parent? you are 16? is this really poetry ? or online group therapy ? little note for you ...she had no permission to be online at this site!...and she has some emotional scars from another bad experience online! so may be its not so messed up ! and when some one says stuff like its "simply this" or "it is just that" ..it makes me really nervous!....the first time someone said that we got kicked out if the garden of eden! ..."it's juuuust fruit from a tree!"
      .....she needs to finish her homework instead of being up all night online ! right?...maybe i suck....these are my words nothing more nothing less...


  • Ignis Corpus
    June 9, 2008
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    wow, that's pretty mean not letting your daughter write poems. I know if my mom ever did that. (she's tried I was victorious) Well, my mom didn't win. Maybe people on the computer can help her more than people near her. I know your daughter's helped me alot.
    -♥-,
    Blood Princess

    • ucancallmereal
      June 10, 2008
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      really?

      so you brag that you can get your way ?...so rules were made to be broken? are you a rebel, blood princess? well my daughter had no permisson to be online all night chatting and having group therapy !...and she was supposed to use her writing skills for her schoolwork ! and i will win ! i will be victorious! and she will thank me later for it! she is too young to bear all of the burdens of the problems from strangers on the internet! it is nice that she has been a good influence for you......now i have to be a good one for her and be responsible for her.....but i am no bloody prince ....so you may feel i do not qualify

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