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Divorced and Happy

Divorced and alone is the way that I am
I'll make this solitary life all that I can.
Visions of a  partner never enter my head
Overseeing my life or what may lay ahead
Rich in lifes solitude I will live all alone
Caring not for the life I had previously known
Each day rewards me, every new step I take
Doing as I please from the moment I wake.

 

 

 

Any change to my life comes from my own plan
Not caused or affected by another man's hand
Daily thanks I will give for the life I now lead

 

 

 

Having myself to blame should I fail or succeed
After all it is my life to do with as I trust
Permitting no interference or intrusion combust
Perhaps I will change, but for now I'm okay,
Yes, alone and happy is the way that I'll stay

 

 

 

 

                                        

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  • Manda Kathryn Greeters member
    November 22, 2008

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    Hood Wink!

    I admire the strength and determination in the poem and found myself quite impressed.
    I know many women who seem to forget they had a life before they were married when they've been divorced but this is the opposite

    I also had a good chuckle at the little smiley at the end of the poem

    ♥
    Stay safe
    ~Manda


  • poetrandy
    November 21, 2008

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    100th Hood-Wink!

    Very well done acrostic! I just love this one! It's filled with emotion and overflows with your statements of "relief from being divorced!


  • Puked Up Pixie
    September 8, 2008
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    xDDD
    The smiley image at the end made the poem.
    xDDD

    <3


  • Poetic Tasha Moderators member
    May 31, 2008
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    you go girl!
    wonderful acrostic!

    TAsha


  • nilav
    April 30, 2008
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    a positive attitude like this is welcome and much necessary to keep life going ....


  • individuality gold member
    February 17, 2008

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    i know the way, i like my solitude life, i am my own boss, i can go to bed at 8am and get up at 4pm if i wish, oh and i wish lol a good poem.

  • tonyher
    February 13, 2008
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    great rhyme

    I ENJOYED YOUR POEM VERY MUCH. LIVING ALONG IS NOT BAD AT ALL. GOOD LUCK TO YOU


  • Lady Altheia
    February 12, 2008

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    This is a positive way of looking at divorce. Marriage isn't for everyone but divorced and happy sounds contrdictory. i really liked the poem.


    • AnnD Moderators member
      February 12, 2008
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      LOL I suppose it could appear contradictory for some, but as a personal concept, its a true statement.

      Thanks for dropping in to read and comment.

      Ann


  • Dutch Doll
    February 5, 2008

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    love that little smilie face there...

    very uplifting and inspiriing, many will appreciate these words, thanks!

    blessings
    adriana


  • finding myself 84
    February 3, 2008
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    I absolutely loved this poem! Very creative & very nice work!


  • Grannyrosie
    February 3, 2008

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    You said it mine sista, way to go. Love it, but you knowed I wood. lol. Blessings, love 'n hugs, Tricia


  • Barbara gold member
    February 2, 2008

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    I tell people that I'm "happily divorced".. and they get this weird look, like I should be some morose thing barely hanging on.

    The day I got my divorce papers was one of the happiest days of my life. My sister took me out to dinner, while my mom watched my kids.

    Excellect acrostic! Can I get a "hell yeah!!!"


  • Chazzi
    February 2, 2008

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    This is an awesme and very inspiring poem! I forced my mother to read it, she's very recently divorced, and it gave her a new outlook and her situation. A truly wonderful way of viewing divorce, great job!


  • Amunet Wolfbane Moderators member
    February 2, 2008

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    I love it! And great emoticon to end is with This is one well done acrostic Ann, pat yourself of the back and Go Ann Go!! Woot!


  • whispernthedark Greeters member
    February 2, 2008

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    I love the defiance at the end. It is so sad when a marriage has to end in divorce, but what a great attitude towards what is such a life-altering experience.

    ♥
    whisper

  • davidwright silver member
    February 2, 2008

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    Very cute poem and nicely written. The thought should apply to the men as well. Many a henpecked man free for the first time in years has struggled with the prospect of being alone. Happy trails neighbor


  • BarefootSoul
    February 2, 2008

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    I remember the days I felt this way even while raising my four kids alone. Now they are gone and I am remarried and going through the tough decision to divorce, verbal emotional abuse. My health renders that decision a very impossible choice. Love the poem and the raspberry lmao..hehe


  • LadyUnique silver member
    February 2, 2008

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    after getting divorced i enjoyed the crap out of being single. i'm now married again and can look back and say that those single years were the best of my life so far
    three cheers for you

  • Kyo-N
    February 2, 2008
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    Hey, does that also apply for men?


  • Musimwa
    February 2, 2008

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    Very good

    this is a very powerful sentiment u have brought to everyone's attention. Keep writing dear poet, u have the wits. I like the way u write.

    Good day


  • eRmOiSlEy
    February 1, 2008
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    You go girl! Be your own woman. Great work. Wonderful write. God bless!
    <33Emily Rose


  • Cyber Artist Moderators member
    February 1, 2008

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    years with out the special guidance that a Man offers has brought out the feminist in you, hardened your heart against the talents that only men and few strange looking women can offer. The soothing noise as we snore you to sleep. The playful dutch oven that awaits your waking... The fun of picking up after us, cooking and fetching a cold one from the fridge. The gentle aroma wafting from the bog. The sight of our aging scrotum as we get ready for bed. And when your just made it to sleep that poke in the back and tap on the shoulder. All this you have given away, how you could miss all this. No man could ever understand


  • Ogreatbaldone gold member
    February 1, 2008

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    I love solitude as well Ann, liked this acrostic(they're my fave). If my wife and I evr split up I know I will never marry again- its just too much work ....love to you and the kids Ann...peace Terry


  • ----michael----
    February 1, 2008

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    I agree, solitude is the best! I am way too moody and annoying to consider that anybody in a right frame of mind could consider being with me. Sexual frustration can be a problem but until my cat works out how to open the bedroom door, I'm fine!

  • Seeking Peace silver member
    February 1, 2008

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    This makes me smile.. it has you written all over it, you go girl, your turning the world on it's head and you don't need any man for that.... love you

    Karen


  • Moons Lunar Angel
    February 1, 2008

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    Good for you Wonderfully written.


  • ScottishPrincess silver member
    February 1, 2008

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    I hope you stay happy and postitive,you never know what life can bring you,my parents are divorced but they are happy with their new lives and things are better now,God Bless,Hazel


  • RainbowGirl257
    February 1, 2008
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    i hope you stay this way.


  • Rose Patrick
    February 1, 2008

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    i love this it was really good I think that you have got it right for you. good for you hope you will stay happy and blessed. i hope that you will have a great day


  • Peteskid gold member
    February 1, 2008

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    this is appealing, affirmation on one's own terms, so many people seem to want to be told when and if they are happy, successful, fulfilled...on andon..this is so refreshing...i think the acrostic form adds emphasis...so very well done...PK


  • Celticmoon
    February 1, 2008

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    DAMN RIGHT!
    Powerful words spoken loud and clear!
    I hear them and I second all you have said here!

    Who needs a man around?
    I swear all they are is nothing but trouble.
    Always whining and moaning about something but heaven forbid you complain, after all you have them so what complaints should we have, right? Grrrrrrrrrrr...

    Yes as you can tell I am a tad irritated today thanks to my ex. Sorry guys I don't mean to generalize ya'll it's just the mood i'm in at the moment, no offense to the good ones out there.




  • SoRrYhErLoT
    February 1, 2008
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    Very nice! I love how you used your words as an acronym! Keep up the great poetry!!!


  • leander Moderators member
    February 1, 2008

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    Well this is very strong and powerful what you have written here sweets, and I can only applaud you for that. And you managed to get that into an acrostic?

    This truly should be seen as an example for sooo much people who seem to think their life is lost when they're alone

    I actually had a visual of you, swaying an angry fist here


  • songstress80
    February 1, 2008

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    you rock!

    i think that it's so cool that you feel this way and i'm even more impressed with how you wrote this artwork...using your title and having each letter go with each sentence was a great idea...i love your poem! excellent work!!!

  • poetesswiththemost
    February 1, 2008
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    I wish you well in your new life. But selfishness gets boring after a while too.


  • ears2hearyou gold member
    February 1, 2008

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    Cleverly done! I just loved it!

    and back at ya sister!
    That graphic little image just made us Laugh & Laugh!

    I think it took me a whole year to get my BRAIN & HEART back
    on the romantic thinking charts...divorce is brutal,
    and you know what...I did enjoy the little "time out"
    being single and rediscovering ...who i am..and what
    do "I" enjoy...I wasn't even sure if I had hobbies?

    laughing...I never realized how little of me I had
    ignored...and when the time was right I knew it in
    my heart, that I am ready to dip my toes to the single
    dating life. Oh, there were some gobbling turkeys...
    but this time I had my priorities "on track"
    I am really grateful too, that this time I had a little
    more knowledge under my belt..as to what to look out
    for! My new hubbie is far from perfect...but I do
    know..what resources, and counseling is available
    in case we get stuck in the mires of confusion and
    priorities to balance our lives more happily!
    EXcellent and cleverly written your poem!
    Just loved it!
    ears2hearyou
    Kathleen : )) BRAVO! BRAVO! BRAVO!

  • icywind55
    February 1, 2008

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    Great Read....

    You have obviously put a lot into this and it shows... makes me laugh and think about how life is at time... keep it up....


  • HopelessScribbles gold member
    February 1, 2008

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    Amen!

    Ann you spoke from your heart through this Acrostics
    you are one gutsy lady...good for you! Life is what you make it! no one to blame....love that...I wish you much Peace...which seems that you have now... thanks for sharing this..MM


  • Metaphorist
    February 1, 2008

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    Haha! You go girl! It takes a lot of faith to have gone through a divorce and realize that you're fine being single. Says quite a bit about your ex-husband This had the perfect mix of form and substance.


  • Electric Sunrise gold member
    February 1, 2008

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    Lmao, it's moments like this, you wonder if being single is the best option, well done petal, excellent write here


  • FifthDove
    February 1, 2008

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    I like it The confidence in your decisions and these words stand out and shine. While first reading I felt a bit sad, but further into it the poem, that feeling went away and I felt joy for you. Some people are never happy being by them selves and complain to all they know. It takes self-confidence and assurance to feel this way. Nice work mate!


  • catz Moderators member
    February 1, 2008

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    Good for you, Sis. I actually used to feel the same way when I was divorced and for a long time afterwards until someone came into my life to change my mind and heart.
    My ex was different than yours, I still can't find fault with him and we remained close friends right up until his death a few years ago.

    But it felt good to be free, on my own for the first time in my life. My children were grown and had children of their own so no 'mamma' responsibilities to hold me back

    I like this wonderful acrostic, it's so open and honest and is well written, easy flowing and smooth.

    Lol... I love the attitude of your emoticon at the end. You go, girl

    luv and
    Dee

  • montez gold member
    February 1, 2008

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    Er....

    .......not bad.

    "U"!
    R.

    • AnnD Moderators member
      February 1, 2008
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      Ah Montez, nice to see you again Thankyou for visiting this fun piece.
      I will return that compliment soon

      Ann


  • Beautiful Dust
    February 1, 2008

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    OK

    Not bad, seems a well-written cathartic release. The "all" before "all alone" seems to be added unnecessarily, and "interferance" should have been 'interference'. Other than that, great meter and flow. Inspiring, even, to a certain degree.

    • AnnD Moderators member
      February 1, 2008
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      lol Thanks for visiting and pointing out the errors, mch appreciated.
      Cathartic, nah, not really, I've had 16 years of getting used to it. Written more for fun than anything.

      Thankyou anyway.

      Ann


  • Happy Heart gold member
    February 1, 2008

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    Astounding piece!

    I have been separated for over two years now.... I am on the fence on should I go back or flee for good.... this makes so much sense... debbie

  • Yvette Champ gold member
    February 1, 2008

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    You go girl! Love the feel-good factor beaming brightly from the universal factor of yes! yes! yes! the number one can and will be filled with fun!


    There is nothing lonelier than being part of the number two and feeling alone anyway.


    This new stage, this new phase, this rebirth belongs to you, these are your moments and they matter.


    Live, laugh and love yourself and enjoy the fun of being solo, it's a great way to fly free, who needs the last rollo? ( excuse the crime-rhyme ! )



    Put your favourite music on and let's have a Divorced and Happy Party!





  • Wolf-Guardian
    February 1, 2008

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    I'm young I know, I'm sure being alone is nice but don't forget not everyone feels the same inside when their by themselves, otherwise i liked your poem. keep up the goodwork


  • Philip K Starck
    February 1, 2008

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    There comes a time when it's right to stand on your own. We all need that from time to time. So enjoy it now, be proud, be happy, learn to relay on yourself.....BUT, don't ever rule out the day when inviting someone else into your life on more equal terms is a possibility!!
    Great write!


  • sapphireangelwings
    February 1, 2008

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    As another divorced and happy soul I can truly relate to this piece! I have found the true sense of self since my divorce and know that I do not need any one else to be happy just as I am! This was delightful to read and good for you!


  • Karsis
    February 1, 2008

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    I'm glad things have gotten this much better.
    And, you're a better person than me, because,
    In the same situation,
    I'd of hit 'em with a lead pipe.
    But hey,
    I'm glad that you're strong enough to make it through.
    You deserve a lot better from life than that.
    Anyway...
    Well done.
    Beautifully written, and all.


    -Saint


  • Kari gold member
    February 1, 2008

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    awwww, this was so sad when I read it and it gave me a tear in my eye BUT it is very good that you're strong, and dependant and won't go down when someone kicks you from behind.

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