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Caught in endless sleep

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Dear Old Papa, it is time for sleep.

 

Power outages in his brain,

slowly drain, and will not give him peace.

Electrical circuits wearily disrupted.

Cerebral centers waving red flags of confusion.

 

He can "not" comprehend or understand?

What is happening to him? 

Anxiety jumps!

Texting his brain caution panicked questions.

 

Is it time to rest or eat ?

I think I'm late for work?

The moon and stars have disappeared?

I'll need a ride to work. 

 

Wandering restlessly,

feet and hands move quietly.

He is determined  to re-organize his cluttered mind

by moving all the furniture silently about the room.

 

Three thirty a.m., Four thirty a.m., finally rise of dawn.

This old man knocks upon the bedroom door.

"I am "lost," I cannot find my way to you.

Are you late for school?"

 

He clings to his belief that something is "All Wrong."

"Where am I today?

What is the scheduled minutes of my detail?"

My dear daughter, he advises me?

 

"I am a soldier caught in endless sleep."

 

Night after night he searches for....

the sundown of his mind. 



 

 

The doctor finally diagnosed Dad, with

Sundowners Syndrome.  

A perfect name for what he was experiencing.

We felt relief knowing, and that we as a family are not alone,

their are many who suffer from this very confusing dis-ease. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Author notes

12/07
Dad has been diagnosed with Sundowners Syndrome.
WE finally found a group home for we need experienced
night care to ease him through the night.

written in 09/07
Recovering from two strokes, Dad is staying with us
until he is able to be on his own as he demands.
I woke up this morning and he had moved all our living
room furniture to the middle of the room while we were
sleeping, and he doesn't remember doing it, he says it
was a dream.

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  • CountryCousin
    March 19, 2008

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    That is a good name.

    I think that is a good name for the syndrome. I trust that your father is doing better being at home. I have an elderly lady who has Alzheimers as a patient, many times she gets one way or the other towards evening.


  • sultan gold member
    October 7, 2007
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    This is Love ...

    You are a wonderful and amazing woman! I'm teary over this. Love, Sultan.


  • ears2hearyou gold member
    September 30, 2007
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    We moved him yesterday into

    his new assisted living apt., his nightnurse's name is
    Pat, that's my grandmother's name!!! oh, how I am going
    to spoil that night nurse! Their are two women on this
    same floor where he is living that had some form of hip
    surgery and need to walk, so they put a whistle around
    his neck and said, will you help us Grandpa Joe (his
    name) and walk these women every day.
    Dad smiled liked a young boy and said, "YES, I'd be
    happy to"
    laughing.......MEN!
    He was a former ballroom dance teacher, always loved
    the ladies......lol


  • natchstucco
    September 30, 2007

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    Wow...powerful words break out on this page. I feel for you. You are so loving and caring. I know I would of never done this for my dad- won[t go there. But I see that he is a fine dad to you and you are a fine daughter to him. This is what I am striving for also, as it has never been so in a couple of generations of my family. well done. hope all is well again.

    Natch


  • SpydurPoet gold member
    September 29, 2007

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    Oh you poor dear. I will not offer you pity but rather a sincere wish and prayers that things will work themselves out for the best. You sound like you are handling this with the strength of a strong woman. Good job.
    Write on!
    ~*~SP~*~

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