Every time I talk to
one of my friends,
Justin gets mad
I met Tylor on the bus
and he went to Altus
I called Albert
and gave him Tylor's number
and asked if he
could show him around
Justin got mad at me
because I called Albert
and Tylor
He doesn't want me talking to either
one of them
but they're my friends
I hate doing things
that makes Justin mad,
but I can't abandon my friends
I admit that I don't really know Tylor
and I know where he's going with it
but he just moved here
and needed a friend
So I helped him out
and Justin got mad
What do I do
to not make him so mad at me?
I hate him being mad at me
So please help me
Please tell me what you think
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well, to tell you the truth... it sounds like Justin doesn't trust you... and if he can't trust you, he can't truly love you... trust is the BIGGEST thing in a relationship... in my opinion, you should either tell him to get over it because they are your friends and not his... he can't choose your friends... all he can do is trust you... well, talk to ya later... love ya girl...
am
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Thanks and you're right. I've told him that so many times and he's told me. I just don't know why he gets so mad. Last night I even asked him why I always make him mad and he said that I don't think before I do anything. I even asked him why I always mess things up between us and he doesn't know. It seems I make him mad all the time and I don't know why. I don't mean to, but everytime I tell him that I did something, he always gets mad. Even when I don't see a problem in it. I just can't explain anything. Tylor asked him last night if he really cared about me and he said that he did but I don't see why he gets mad at me. I just don't understand. Before we talked the other night and got everything sorted out, he got mad at me because I didn't understand what he was getting at. After that talk we were fine until last night when I called Albert and Tylor to get them hooked so Albert could show him around town. I don't know.
Amber
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Ragan
being mature over simple little friendships is something justin has to learn...though your intentions are good...you might want to lighten up not being pushy and try to understand...dont give up on your right to have friends...something you can both have together...if he just give a little understanding to your needs to keep your friends...
sometimes..this dose not happen and breakup is evident...I hope you keep your happiness with the one you love...
Hugs and love from me
Mal
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I know everyone needs to be loved. And at a goung age it is so important, that you'll do anything to keep the one you love.
BUT. Maby 1 of 100 people marry the one they were in love with in high school. Maby more but prob close.
Anyway, if you were married to him rite now. What kind of life would you have. You couldn't talk to any men friends or not. And then what about your girl friends that are not married and want you to meet them for lunch??? Being so strict with your loved one, makes a bad relationship.
Maby have him with you when you talk to them, so he'll see your just friends.
Just a thought.
Good luck girl...
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Thanks. He doesn't mind if I hang out with girls, but it's the guys he doesn't like because he doesn't trust them. Tylor talked to him last night and now Justin respects him because Tylor told him that he wouldn't disrespect him by trying to get with me and he doesn't mess with girls if they have a boyfriend. Tylor has so much respect for Justin and me that Justin doesn't have a problem with him. His main issue now is that I called Albert to have him show Tylor around. I promised Justin that I wouldn't call Albert and last night I broke that promise without meaning to just to help out Tylor. I forgot all about that promise until he told me that I broke it.
Amber
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