This is absolutely frustrating!!! >:[
and yes, love in my situation, is very frustrating!
While everyone else knows how their special someone feels about them, I have to lose sleep over if my friend feels the same about me after I told him that I like him... I know he's trying to sort out his feelings, but I really need an answer... He at least owes me that!
I'll ask gently of course, but if I don't get an answer, then it's off to OkCupid, eHarmony, and Chemistry.com (dating sites) so I can find a REAL MAN that can let me know how he feels about me. the male-to-female ratio on campus isn't exactly in my favor, either - with 60% women and 40% men.
Is this all there is for my love life? If there is, then I'll just learn to deal with that forever... :'(
I'm sorry if this just seems tiring to read, but I have to let out my frustrations somehow... :'(
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"60% women and 40% men." - that does sounds pretty good, though. In my college, there are well over 200 students and only 12 of them are guys. Well, that is in the first year, but I'm too shy to go to the other year students, whom I don't know. Or to the other colleges within the university. Hmm.
I can probably say too little of universal value... but I can tell you my experience about rushing. A few years ago, I fell in love (I mean seriously in love) with this guy who was supposed to leave the country after a year. The months went on and I started to feel hurried, to make sure that if he knows how I feel, thinking that would make sure that if he wants to be with me, he will. So I did... and then he started to mistake my intentions, as the circumstances weren't going for us; I lost him not only as a guy I was interested in, but also as a friend. Then, years after, I fell in love with my best guy-friend. Again, the circumstances didn't go for us. He saw about how I felt, but I never once told him or asked him for anything romantic or anything like it. Time went on and he ended up asking me... and we progressed slowly.
My point isn't about telling him how you feel. All I'm saying is, perhaps if you leave him to think for a while, the answer will be more favorable than if you ask him to say something now, before he's done thinking
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Love is confusing! =[
I know it's better to wait and let things take their course... It's just that I've gotten so many conflicting pieces of advice about this, and it's leaving me discouraged. I'm pretty convinced that I should have just kept quiet about how I felt so I wouldn't be in the situation that I'm in now. I guess from what I said, that he may me mistaking what I said, thinking that I was rushing things. I just feel so bad that if I hadn't said anything, that I'd be better off. I think that from what I said, I ruined a good thing. I can't even get into his head to figure that out! So much for my chances of romance, I always end up making a mess of things, and I'm always left heartbroken :'(. If this is how it'll end up for me every time, I'll have a hard time believing if love is worth it, because from every situation ending badly, that I'm meant to be lonely. =[
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