You know sometimes I want to shake guys for being so stupid when it comes to women but here lately I've realized that their ineptitude on certain things has really made things better in the long run for me. Guys inconsistencies in relationships has made my steadiness something women have come to appreciate in me even to the point that most of my exes would date me again.1
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Even simple things such as buying them flowers and little surprises such as that that are almost commonplace with me have elevated me to a position higher then most guy. I mean $5 for 4 roses at walmart is not a big deal to me but when I show up at a girlfriends house or work with them I've had every reaction from passionate kisses to tears. Every girl I don't care what she says loves roses. A dozen roses on a bad day is something that they remember for years. Teddy bears and cards are a permanent reminder of your thoughtfulness. I think the most I've ever spent was blue roses for a friend that really wanted them and I sent a card and a teddy bear with it because I knew she had been having a rough time and that only cost me About $80. Yes that's a bit much to drop for a lot of people but I've been blessed here lately with a lot of hours at a high paying job that's really made life much easier for me.3
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Ive always taken pride in doing things differently and being different. Although there are probably exceptions, almost everyone I know would consider me off mainstream which is the way I like it. From relationships to my sense of humor and everything else in between. So Ill take my uniqueness and gay(to the guys) sweet (to the girls) mentality and mannerisms and continue to be the good catch to the women willing to get past my physical appearance. Those are my thoughts this morning. Later...5



