Mother's day sucks. Every year my mom decided that she wants her house clean for mother's day. So she tried to get my brother and I to clean for her. Now, getting my brother to do anything is like trying to lead a herd of elephants accross qiuck sand. It just doesen't work out too well. As for me, well, I woke up willing to help her, but the first thing she did when she came downstairs was call me stupid. So I said that I wasn't going to help her because of it. So she flipped out at me. She started screaming at me, and my brother wouldn't shut up so I told him to be quiet or I'd punch his braces into the back of his head. Than HE started on me too.
I am supposed to go live with my Grandma for the summer. My mom threatened to call my Grandma up and not let me go. I pointed out that she would only be punishing herself because she'd be stuck with me all summer which would drive her nuts. She kept going on about me needing to face the consequences of my actions. WHat actions? Not being her servent? Besides, what about HER actions? What about the consequences she has to face for calling me stupid?
My brother tried to protect himself from me by stealing my laptop thinking that I wouldn't hit him if he used it as a shield. Idiot boy. I know how much my laptop can take, I just won't strike harder than that. Jeze I loathe that kid when he does things like that.
Of corse, God is probably pissed off at me. I said "God Damn", and I didn't exactly honor my mother today of all days. But you know what? Part of me doesen't care. Part of me is too angey to care. Part of me is so angry I want to cry. But I don't cry, I never cry in anger. Unlike my mother, she was sobbing her heart out earlier this morning. This is mean to say, but it serves her right. How dare she! How dare she think she can be mean and nasty to me and still get me to follow her every bidding! I'm not her slave! I'm not going to let her or anyone elsse walk all over me, and I'm not going to let her turn my grandparents against me again. I am sick of it, sick of putting up with this crap. If I had the money i'd live in an appartment by myself, but I don't. College is too expensive, I have no choice but to live with family durring the summer.
Anyways, that is why I hate mothers day, because stuff like this happens EVERY SINGLE YEAR!
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I feel ya, it sounds like your mom might have some depression issues if one minute she is yelling at you and the next she is sobbing. I hate when mom's say something to make us feel like crap or call us something not so nice. I hauled off and hit my mom once, not that I am proud of that fact, I warned her that if she hit me again I would do that and I followed through with it. It shocked her and no matter how mad she gets at me she has never raised a hand to me again. I am 30 years old now, at that time I was 20, I think.
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the exact same thing happened to me today as well!
I wake up to my mother yelling at me telling me that I have to clean the house. and unlike you, she never asks my brother to do anything. which is incredibly unfair. so she was being incredibly mean to me today and so I didn't give her a very nice card which I guess is kinda mean on my part. but after all the shit she said to me I just couldn't bring myself to write her anything nice you know?
anyways, I just wanted to comment and say that I can relate to your situation.. I hope things work out for you. I'm sure she won't be able to turn your grandparents against you anyways so you'll probably have a very nice summer with them
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ohh, my grandparents always take her side in everything. Fortunatly she has calmed down now that I have hired our neighbor to help clean. Anyways, thanks for reading!
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that's great
hopefully things will work out for you!
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