DON'T BE SCARED. LOL
COME IN AND SHARE YOUR OPINION WITH US.
Okay my friends, here is a very intriguing contest in
which I need your honest opinions.
Of course to be written in POETIC FORM.
but nevertheless true and honest.
A good friend of mine im this letter to me.
It's from a guy whose nameless.
He writes this letter telling other guys how they
ought to treat women.
I have no problem with that at all.
I agree that women should be treated with
respect and warmth. They are a blessing to the
world as we all are and are due respect.
My problem with this guys letter is that it seems
to be a gimmick in order to get points from weak
women that need to be stroked.
That same brother probably treats women like toys.
He probably is charming and gentle, luring the ladies
in unaware of His true self, until He gets what He wants.
"The Panties!"
Below is my response to the letter Mr. Nameless wrote.
I would like you to write on the same topic, giving us your
opinion from a Male or Female perspective.
For example: do you think the guy who wrote the letter is full of shit?
Or do you think He's genuine and has it right on?
Read my response after reading what Mr. nameless wrote.
Then write a poem giving us your own opinion.
Mr.nameless letter below
My friend adds, Don't Know Who Wrote This But He Was On Point....
Every Girl's Dream Guy.......
I know way too many really beautiful girls who think they don't look good... It hurts... because it's our fault, guys I mean. We make girls feel like they have to be perfect. You know what I mean, flat stomach, big boobs, round booty, long legs, sexy lips, and on top of all that, they have to dress like a whore, and be one as well... nobody can measure up to that... and its not fair... because nobody should have to. Girls prefer being called beautiful instead of hott or sexy. The little imperfections are what make people special. If everyone was perfect the world would be so boring, variety is what makes life interesting. So guys, stop making girls have to live up to your, I'm sorry, our... deluded fantasy visions of perfection. Stop acting like boys and start being men... realize that women don't exist to fufill our sexual desires. Stop talking to them solely to get with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them. Say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get some, but because its true and you know they like to hear them. In short... we need to grow up and stop acting like freakin little boys. Not every woman on Tagged is on here to get laid!!! They want a friend, and understanding friend that will respect them....
Much Thanks To The Man Who Wrote This.....
My response
good points..
but the truth is that both Men and Women share equal blame
in this crazy game of life. Most tuck their real feelings inside
to be what other people idea of them is.
We put up walls and wear mask all the time.
Women want it both ways. First you say you want to be
treated like a real woman. But when a real man treats you
like a woman, he is called boring or nice but not attractive.
He's looked at as a friend. someone to dump on while she
gives all her love to someone who treats her like shit.
Women also say they don't want to be treated like they are
a piece of meat but they dress like a sexy chicken.
There needs to be clear communication between men and
women. you can't secretly desire one thing but act out another
and expect a guy to read your mind.
The ladies that truly love themselves and have respect
for themselves and the man, know how to attract the same.
Most ladies have very low self esteem, because they look
for affirmation from someone other than themselves.
If you have a negative spirit you will communicate that same
feeling to everyone around you.
We guys are not much better, other than we do mostly
say what we mean. A man is a predator and is suppose
to pursue a woman. Its up to the ladies to set the rules of
engagement and not sell themselves cheap.
I like what the brother said but its weak when you analize
it more closely. It's just reverse pyschology to get the attention
of helpless women who are desperate for love so He can
do the same things He says other brothers do to women.
( which is to take advantage of their weaknesses.)
The moral of this story is to just love yourself.
Take pride in who you are and treat others like
you want to be treated. Don't be anyone's fool.
Don't settle just to be fucked when you feeling lonely
and unappreciated. Most of all, communicate what you
want verbally. aswell as through how you present yourself to
others.
Rules: ( Remember I'm looking for response in POETIC FORM )
1. no chat lingo
2. no dirty pretty
3. use spell check
4. use Free Verse, prose or Rhyme only
5. apply proper use of grammar
6. Stay within the topic please
I know alot of reading was required for this contest
and hope it doesn't discourage you from participating.
Please try and keep it light. I want your honest opinions
but let's not make this an Us vs Them kind of thing.
The object of this contest is engagement and communication.
I believe Men and Women need to talk more so we can
all understand one another better.
Most of all, PLEASE HAVE FUN!
I LOVED THIS RESPONSE FROM "Beast Of Chaos" AND THOUGHT EVERYONE SHOULD READ IT.
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT.
SISTER'S DON'T KNOW HOW TO RECEIVE A GOOD MAN.
CHECK IT OUT
written by Beast Of Chaos
its all a confusing idea to be truthful...ive loved every woman ive dated completely and truly...im old fashion guy...roses gifts treating the woman like she is perfection...and all women are perfection... at least in my eyes... i put them before my self...was always there for them... no matter the cost.. be it time, a shoulder to cry on, a ear to listen or cash if they found them self in trouble, i was there... i was the one cheated on used and left... who's fault is it no ones... woman love the nice guys but they also desire the bad guys... same as nice guys love good girls but desire the dirty girls... its reality your both right... men and women crave attention they crave to love and acceptance... they lust for and they need... where human...we search for everything, even when what we want is in front of out eyes... but once we have what we want something else always looks better some where else...we all are human, love fully when you can... and remember we are all same and different at the same time... we are all out there looking for a moment of happiness praying it last longer... i my self have found what people call soul mates but ill never be with again...at least not for some time...so ive rambled enough...hope what i said makes sence...
COME IN AND SHARE YOUR OPINION WITH US.
Okay my friends, here is a very intriguing contest in
which I need your honest opinions.
Of course to be written in POETIC FORM.
but nevertheless true and honest.
A good friend of mine im this letter to me.
It's from a guy whose nameless.
He writes this letter telling other guys how they
ought to treat women.
I have no problem with that at all.
I agree that women should be treated with
respect and warmth. They are a blessing to the
world as we all are and are due respect.
My problem with this guys letter is that it seems
to be a gimmick in order to get points from weak
women that need to be stroked.
That same brother probably treats women like toys.
He probably is charming and gentle, luring the ladies
in unaware of His true self, until He gets what He wants.
"The Panties!"
Below is my response to the letter Mr. Nameless wrote.
I would like you to write on the same topic, giving us your
opinion from a Male or Female perspective.
For example: do you think the guy who wrote the letter is full of shit?
Or do you think He's genuine and has it right on?
Read my response after reading what Mr. nameless wrote.
Then write a poem giving us your own opinion.
Mr.nameless letter below
My friend adds, Don't Know Who Wrote This But He Was On Point....
Every Girl's Dream Guy.......
I know way too many really beautiful girls who think they don't look good... It hurts... because it's our fault, guys I mean. We make girls feel like they have to be perfect. You know what I mean, flat stomach, big boobs, round booty, long legs, sexy lips, and on top of all that, they have to dress like a whore, and be one as well... nobody can measure up to that... and its not fair... because nobody should have to. Girls prefer being called beautiful instead of hott or sexy. The little imperfections are what make people special. If everyone was perfect the world would be so boring, variety is what makes life interesting. So guys, stop making girls have to live up to your, I'm sorry, our... deluded fantasy visions of perfection. Stop acting like boys and start being men... realize that women don't exist to fufill our sexual desires. Stop talking to them solely to get with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them. Say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get some, but because its true and you know they like to hear them. In short... we need to grow up and stop acting like freakin little boys. Not every woman on Tagged is on here to get laid!!! They want a friend, and understanding friend that will respect them....
Much Thanks To The Man Who Wrote This.....
My response
good points..
but the truth is that both Men and Women share equal blame
in this crazy game of life. Most tuck their real feelings inside
to be what other people idea of them is.
We put up walls and wear mask all the time.
Women want it both ways. First you say you want to be
treated like a real woman. But when a real man treats you
like a woman, he is called boring or nice but not attractive.
He's looked at as a friend. someone to dump on while she
gives all her love to someone who treats her like shit.
Women also say they don't want to be treated like they are
a piece of meat but they dress like a sexy chicken.
There needs to be clear communication between men and
women. you can't secretly desire one thing but act out another
and expect a guy to read your mind.
The ladies that truly love themselves and have respect
for themselves and the man, know how to attract the same.
Most ladies have very low self esteem, because they look
for affirmation from someone other than themselves.
If you have a negative spirit you will communicate that same
feeling to everyone around you.
We guys are not much better, other than we do mostly
say what we mean. A man is a predator and is suppose
to pursue a woman. Its up to the ladies to set the rules of
engagement and not sell themselves cheap.
I like what the brother said but its weak when you analize
it more closely. It's just reverse pyschology to get the attention
of helpless women who are desperate for love so He can
do the same things He says other brothers do to women.
( which is to take advantage of their weaknesses.)
The moral of this story is to just love yourself.
Take pride in who you are and treat others like
you want to be treated. Don't be anyone's fool.
Don't settle just to be fucked when you feeling lonely
and unappreciated. Most of all, communicate what you
want verbally. aswell as through how you present yourself to
others.
Rules: ( Remember I'm looking for response in POETIC FORM )
1. no chat lingo
2. no dirty pretty
3. use spell check
4. use Free Verse, prose or Rhyme only
5. apply proper use of grammar
6. Stay within the topic please
I know alot of reading was required for this contest
and hope it doesn't discourage you from participating.
Please try and keep it light. I want your honest opinions
but let's not make this an Us vs Them kind of thing.
The object of this contest is engagement and communication.
I believe Men and Women need to talk more so we can
all understand one another better.
Most of all, PLEASE HAVE FUN!
I LOVED THIS RESPONSE FROM "Beast Of Chaos" AND THOUGHT EVERYONE SHOULD READ IT.
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT.
SISTER'S DON'T KNOW HOW TO RECEIVE A GOOD MAN.
CHECK IT OUT
written by Beast Of Chaos
its all a confusing idea to be truthful...ive loved every woman ive dated completely and truly...im old fashion guy...roses gifts treating the woman like she is perfection...and all women are perfection... at least in my eyes... i put them before my self...was always there for them... no matter the cost.. be it time, a shoulder to cry on, a ear to listen or cash if they found them self in trouble, i was there... i was the one cheated on used and left... who's fault is it no ones... woman love the nice guys but they also desire the bad guys... same as nice guys love good girls but desire the dirty girls... its reality your both right... men and women crave attention they crave to love and acceptance... they lust for and they need... where human...we search for everything, even when what we want is in front of out eyes... but once we have what we want something else always looks better some where else...we all are human, love fully when you can... and remember we are all same and different at the same time... we are all out there looking for a moment of happiness praying it last longer... i my self have found what people call soul mates but ill never be with again...at least not for some time...so ive rambled enough...hope what i said makes sence...
Contest is Over
- Contest was judged on November 12
- Rewards: Gold: 500
- Final notes: I would like to thank all the participants
for their input into this intimate and
relevant subject. Relationships between
men and women are difficult.
We come with our own set of baggage.
I believe neither side could talk about
the other, for we all share blame.
The idea is to communicate and come
to a better understanding of each other aswell as yourselves.
Most of all, we need to find away
to love ourselves. To even come to
understand what that means is a start
in the right direction.
Congratulations to the winners
I wish you all great fortune and happiness.
Blessings and Love. darell
Contest Winners
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If you think sweet talk will win me over
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You say "I love you dear with all my heart"
What i hear is"You dirty slut i wanted a good girl"• Commented on by judge.
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what the.....!?
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mmkay, i get it....why do we have to psychoanalyze one another? interesting contest, ill watch it for entries......
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i think the guy is full of shit but is right on the dot sry boys
he's probably some hypocrite...... i like what you wrote afterwards though and aka im one of the girls who is in love with her $5 jeans with the wholes in the knees and wears t shirts but still found the sexy chicken analogy flattering ( sometimes i dres up-but not like
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very good idea love..i think i shall enter this one.
Love ya
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I think you have a good contest idea, I personally know guys like this and they do pray on women, especially women who have been abused in their past... its sad that a guy can't be a gentleman... shouldn't be that hard to be one.
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Well said Sean.
It shouldnt be hard at all. LOL Thing is, I look at all men as they are full of shit. Until they deem themselves worthy. I have been abused for many years and suffer from low self esteem, but also, I know when a man is playing around to get a piece of ass to a man who is sincere. Being abused does make you cautious..or should make you more cautious so you dont end up in the same situation as before. And no offense, alot of "gentlemen" turn out to be total asses, using the reverse psychology method, "well shes been abused, i know her weakness, they they fly in for the kill." Alot of them are good actors with weak material which usually causes them to slip up. lol..lucky for us
Thanks for your words..
Sorry for my ramble
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I've seen it happen right here on AP ...seen them try and hurt the ones I love... and yes they seem like they are nice even spiritual but the ugly always comes out in the wash... And I enjoyed your ramble lol made me feel like Trisha was talking to me same wave of thoughts on this subject... and tonight she is not feeling well so I miss her
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It happens alot ALOT here on Ap
I have allowed many of them to do it to me.
but, I seen it I just hoped they would change..
Unfortunately, once a ass always one 
I dont know who your Trisha is my friend, but i hope she feels better soon, I am sniffling myself, but was led to this contest. Hey i thought i was one of them you loved sheesh..where'd the love go 
s to you and your friend
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guys on ap play on insecurities to accomplish what exactly? im just curious since its not real life but over the net. am i naive?
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Well this guy sure knows what to say to women that would fall for this! He just wants some ass!!! Someone needs to burn that letter LOL!!!! Nice contest though I'll be reading the entries
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The guy is right on, but probably IS just wanting to get into someones pants. I agree about 50/50 with what you wrote. Everyone isn't the same and some people DO need help from others who actually LOVE and ACCEPT them in order to get through this thing we call life. And sometimes the "nice guy who never wins" thing is a BS act and when you get right down to it, the ones who project themselves as such are the worst of all. I am living that as we speak. There is no universal answer. But women ARE pushed more by society to feel they have to measure up physically, that is pretty much just fact.
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its all a confusing idea to be truthful...ive loved every woman ive dated completely and truly...im old fashion guy...roses gifts treating the woman like she is perfection...and all women are perfection... at least in my eyes... i put them before my self...was always there for them... no matter the cost.. be it time, a shoulder to cry on, a ear to listen or cash if they found them self in trouble, i was there... i was the one cheated on used and left... who's fault is it no ones... woman love the nice guys but they also desire the bad guys... same as nice guys love good girls but desire the dirty girls... its reality your both right... men and women crave attention they crave to love and acceptance... they lust for and they need... where human...we search for everything, even when what we want is in front of out eyes... but once we have what we want something else always looks better some where else...we all are human, love fully when you can... and remember we are all same and different at the same time... we are all out there looking for a moment of happiness praying it last longer... i my self have found what people call soul mates but ill never be with again...at least not for some time...so ive rambled enough...hope what i said makes sence...
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"Women also say they don't want to be treated like they are
a piece of meat but they dress like a sexy chicken."
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I dont need to make a poem for this to tell you that he is full of it. I could pick out key words that he used taht give him away. What he said is true women are not here just for men to get in their pants, but how he worderd some things in that soon as I saw it was like red flag. He wants draws
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Thanks for the gold in this contest
congrats to other winners
Love
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This was a cool contest. please invite me for the next one like this
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