I used to believe that if we failed to tell at least three people a day that we love them, we had wasted a day of our life. But then I realized that saying it only three times was aiming really low. There are so many ways to tell people we love them, three times a day is just inadequate. I came up with a list of 100 ways in short order, but I would like to see a poem reflecting this value. I'm not suggesting writers list a literal 100 ways, but rather address the spirit of the ideal poetically. A list is fine, but a poem is best.
I am including a quick list I made, and it may be redundant. But like I said, I want a poem...and having original ideas/ways to love people, would make my day.
Profound ideas that really help people feel inspired to actually reach out and love others better is what I am after. After all, as they say, love is a verb.
Let's help change the world, one poem at a time! You need not be a Christian, or any other faith-based type person to join this contest. Just because I am, doesn't mean I will discriminate if someone is different than me. THAT would not be very loving. :-)
Thank you.
Timothy Cameron
100 Ways to Love People
- Love God with all of your heart, soul, mind, and strength.
- Love others as we love ourselves.
- Returning carts to the corral (or bring them into) the stores.
- Help workers load a truck cart that they are having trouble moving up a ramp.
- Call someone and tell them that you love them.
- Let someone tell me that they love me.
- Compliment them on a spiritual quality that they possess.
- Listen empathetically and honestly without trying to fix someone.
- Leave things better than I found them.
- Take the time to employ the Law of Creative Smiling when we are around people (smiling with your laughter, eyes, teeth, tongue, posture, physical proximity, etc).
- Hugs.
- Handshakes.
- If someone is behind you at a store and you are both looking for a prime parking spot, drive past the good one and let the other driver have it (or just never take the best spot and let someone else can have it).
- Call someone and let them know you care.
- Do free service work at your place of employment.
- Sacrifice time and energy to help people.
- Give people room on the road, let them go first. Be polite and smile.
- Stop for pedestrians.
- Pull over to help someone having trouble on the roadside.
- Caress a loved one’s face with a deep look of love.
- Offer well-placed & sincere compliments.
- Let them know they have a social snafu thing going on (booger on their nose, fly open, button open on one’s blouse, food on chin, etc).
- Tell them a lighthearted joke.
- Encourage someone that is feeling stressed or has a hurtle to surmount.
- Shovel someone’s driveway anonymously.
- Give pleasure without expectation of reciprocal activity.
- Give someone a backrub.
- Wash someone’s feet.
- Give your partner a bath.
- Share some music with someone (burn CD’s for people).
- Deposit some money in a friend’s account that needs money.
- Fast and give the money you would have spent on food to the poor.
- Volunteer to help a charity.
- Buy a treat for someone.
- Laugh with people.
- Write someone a poem.
- Buy someone a greeting card (or create one for someone).
- Clean someone’s windshield of snow and ice.
- Buy some food for a poor person or a Missionary while in line at a grocery store.
- Go to a Thrift Shop and buy something for a needy person.
- Return a lost article to someone.
- Admit to someone when you are wrong.
- Inject lightheartedness into difficulty circumstances.
- When you were right and someone else was wrong, do not rub their nose in it, but rather say something appreciative with humility.
- Offer someone your place in line wherever your are.
- Let someone know in their work capacity, that you, their customer, genuinely appreciate their hard work.
- Adjust a rug by a business door that has been rumpled and is keeping a door from closing right, or is just out of position.
- Pick up trash on the side of a road and discard it in the proper receptacle.
- Do not play your radio too loud in quiet neighborhoods or when people are nearby.
- Provide someone transportation.
- Provide directions to someone asking for it (maybe lead them to the right street or highway, etc.).
- Shampoo someone’s hair.
- Give up your seat on the bus, give up your taxi, or offer someone your choice spot in a well-attended function.
- Get to work on time and do not leave early at someone else’s expense.
- Do not use foul language around people that find it uncomfortable to be around it.
- Open a door for someone.
- Pull out and push in a chair for a date (follow social etiquette).
- Do not flap the covers after you fart (or don’t fart there in the first place).
- Do not gossip.
- Be inclusive.
- Be positive, not negative.
- Remember people’s names (including their children).
- Praise someone, treat someone extra-special.
- Ask someone what his or her name means (first or last, when appropriate).
- Ask permission to ask a question before asking it.
- Thank a store clerk by name after a transaction.
- Compliment someone’s appearance when appropriate.
- Learn something about someone’s field of interest so you can discuss it with them.
- Learn someone’s sibling’s names and learn things about them.
- Remember what people tell you about personal things.
- Return phone calls.
- Remove trash from the street.
- Volunteer to give rides.
- Write someone a poem.
- Do 12th Step work.
- Clean up trash in a restaurant for the Wait Staff.
- Scrape someone’s’ windshield of ice & snow anonymously
- Shovel someone’s driveway/sidewalk anonymously.
- Give a generous tip to Wait staff.
- Pick up garbage and dispose of it in the proper receptacles.
- To avoid embarrassing them, mention your name to someone you have not seen in a while, just in case they forgot your name.
- While waiting in line, be patient and cheerful.
- Let someone else in line go first.
- Offer to help an elderly person carry groceries to the car.
- Offer your arm for support to an elderly person walking across the street, to their car, to church, etc.
- Make amends to those we have harmed.
- Place a quarter in someone’s expired parking meter.
- Let someone get in front of you in traffic.
- Be grateful for everything.
- Make amends.
- Throw a quarter in someone’s expired parking meter.
- Do service work at your place of worship.
- Offer to babysit at no cost so someone from your place of worship or place of employment can attend a workshop or event as a couple.
- Forgive yourself or others.
- Feeding aquarium fish and watching them look like they are dancing.
- Bringing food to and feeding pets.
- Let people love you exactly as they are.
- Teach (encourage) love.
- Don't cuss around those that don't care for it.
Contest is Over
- Contest was judged on September 21
- Rewards: Gold: 400, Silver: 100, Bronze: 50
- Final notes: Thanks to all for entering this contest. Sorry I could not get here to judge it earlier. I was loving someone, and it was really awesome!
Contest Winners
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I'd write "I love you" in the sand,
but the waves would only steal it.• Commented on by judge. [remove] -
It’s big enough to fit
The Universe inside.• Commented on by judge. [remove]
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I have a math teacher 45 years of age
She's the sweetest lady, exciting to engageby Blue-Rose Beauty 41 lines, 40 comments, on May 14 7:40 PM• Commented on by judge. Prewrite -
Almost the same
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In all the world love is found inside the hand
shakes of a crowd• Commented on by judge. -
Saying I love you can be awkward
can be weirdby TheSexyOne 17 lines, 1 comment, on Aug 31 9:04 PM• Commented on by judge.
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I commend you for putting together this list!!! We need more people in this world like you. Thanks so much for the wonderful feeling I got when reading this.
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This is a wonderful idea.
Do you mind if i borrowed your list? -
AWW..wish it was open to prewrites!!
I have a beautiful prewrite that would fit the prompt beautifully!
good luck with your contest!




