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My Son the Man by Sharon Olds: American Life in Poetry #70

As a man I'll never gain the wisdom Sharon Olds expresses in this poem about motherhood, but one of the reasons poetry is essential is that it can take us so far into someone else's experience that we feel it's our own.
My Son the Man

Suddenly his shoulders get a lot wider,
the way Houdini would expand his body
while people were putting him in chains. It seems
no time since I would help him to put on his sleeper,
guide his calves into the gold interior,
zip him up and toss him up and
catch his weight. I cannot imagine him
no longer a child, and I know I must get ready,
get over my fear of men now my son
is going to be one. This was not
what I had in mind when he pressed up through me like a
sealed trunk through the ice of the Hudson,
snapped the padlock, unsnaked the chains,
and appeared in my arms. Now he looks at me
the way Houdini studied a box
to learn the way out, then smiled and let himself be manacled.



American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. "My Son the Man" from THE WELLSPRING by Sharon Olds. Copyright © 1996 by Sharon Olds. Used by permission of Alfred A. Knopf, a division of Random House, Inc. Introduction copyright © 2009 by The Poetry Foundation. The introduction's author, Ted Kooser, served as United States Poet Laureate Consultant in Poetry to the Library of Congress from 2004-2006. We do not accept unsolicited manuscripts.

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  • sashi
    November 12
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    good work...

    the portrait of a mother seeing her child grow up is great !!!

  • humble1
    October 1
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    great poem

    as a mother i know my son will always be back for his sunday dinner nothing like mammas cooking lol. boys will always be boys thats what i always think anyway, a very thought provoking piece

  • Aries gold member
    October 1
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    Wonderfully penned. As a Mother it is a unique idea of childbirth
    Really thought provoking


  • Stirrer of Stardust
    September 30
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    Wowed would be a good word to use. Lots to find in a little time.....

    Brilliance brilliantly displayed.

    Sincerely,

    ~ ~ Janet ~ ~

  • doujah
    September 30
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    have no fear every boy turned man looks at his mother as a means of escape. And they will. But we always come back. The sooner we realize this (as men) the sooner we return. So have no fear of your son bound in a box for as you said, he's smiling


  • frownsnfreckles
    September 30
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    What a fascinating interpretation of childbirth. The imagery is striking and yet there is such an elemental truth behind it.
    Psychologists could have a field day with this and Houdini's relationship to his mother!

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