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They Sit Together on the Porch by Wendell Berry: American Life in Poetry #68

Here is a marvelous little poem about a long marriage by the Kentucky poet, Wendell Berry. It's about a couple resigned to and comfortable with their routines. It is written in language as clear and simple as its subject. As close together as these two people have grown, as much alike as they have become, there is always the chance of the one, unpredictable, small moment of independence. Who will be the first to say goodnight?
They Sit Together on the Porch

They sit together on the porch, the dark
Almost fallen, the house behind them dark.
Their supper done with, they have washed and dried
The dishes–only two plates now, two glasses,
Two knives, two forks, two spoons–small work for two.
She sits with her hands folded in her lap,
At rest. He smokes his pipe. They do not speak,
And when they speak at last it is to say
What each one knows the other knows. They have
One mind between them, now, that finally
For all its knowing will not exactly know
Which one goes first through the dark doorway, bidding
Goodnight, and which sits on a while alone.



American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. From "A Timbered Choir", by Wendell Berry. Copyright © 1998. Published and reprinted by arrangement with Counterpoint Press, a member of the Perseus Books Group (www.perseusbooks.com). All rights reserved. Introduction copyright © 2009 by The Poetry Foundation. The introduction's author, Ted Kooser, served as United States Poet Laureate Consultant in Poetry to the Library of Congress from 2004-2006. We do not accept unsolicited manuscripts.

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  • DolphinLass silver member
    September 27
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    very expressive of a long life together

  • loristeintherwanger
    September 27
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    comfortng

    This so comforting to me. Simple sweet life of the two, how nice. If we all could be content as these two sound.

  • miamigirlno1 gold member
    September 27
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    I just read the other comments from other readers and I see that I'm just dense and completely missed the metaphor. I suppose I rather think of them together, and not alone. Now that I see how beautiful this poem is I'm even more impressed and in awe.

  • miamigirlno1 gold member
    September 27
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    Sweet write. I know that feeling,it's that way with my man. Your poem describes that unique magic soul mates share. I question you though,why they could not enter the dark doorway together? What were you thinking when you decided to end the piece with one alone for a while? I'm curious. I truly enjoy reading your work and try to learn from you

  • ea silver member
    September 27
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    I agree with Morning Song that going through the "dark doorway" is a metaphor for death and how sad it is when an elderly couple must face the fact that one of them will be leaving the other behind sometime soon, no matter that they have grown in love and spirit, through a lifetime of living together, as "one mind." It is a terrible fate to be the one left behind. A very gentle poem by Wendell Berry, a perennial favorite poet of mine.

  • madimar
    September 26
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    connected

    This is a beautiful poem. And couples do have close relationaships like this. To some it might be the end of a relationship, but to others it is just the ultimate sharing of friendship throughout life.

  • Morning-Song
    September 26
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    Well, this just left me to wonder: Which one of the two will die first?

  • LovingPhoenix
    September 26
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    What a lovely poem! To feel that comfort in knowing all is safe and you are loved unconditionally. What a wonderful feeling this must be!


  • Budart
    September 26
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    I reached this point in my marriage and got a divorce. Couldn't face thirty more years of boredom. When you get to the point that you know what the other person is going to think or say about any situation it is time to move on.

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