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Family Reunion by Catherine Barnett: American Life in Poetry #67

One in a series of elegies by New York City poet Catherine Barnett, this poem describes the first gathering after death has shaken a family to its core. The father tries to help his grown daughter forget for a moment that, a year earlier, her own two daughters were killed, that she is now alone. He's heartsick, realizing that drinking can only momentarily ease her pain, a pain and love that takes hold of the entire family. The children who join her in the field are silent guardians.
Family Reunion

My father scolded us all for refusing his liquor.
He kept buying tequila, and steak for the grill,
until finally we joined him, making margaritas,
cutting the fat off the bone.

When he saw how we drank, my sister
shredding the black labels into her glass
while his remaining grandchildren
dragged their thin bunk bed mattresses

first out to the lawn to play
then farther up the field to sleep next to her,
I think it was then he changed,
something in him died. He's gentler now,

quiet, losing weight though every night
he eats the same ice cream he always ate
only now he's not drinking,
he doesn't fall asleep with the spoon in his hand,

he waits for my mother to come lie down with him.



American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Reprinted from "Into Perfect Spheres Such Holes Are Pierced," Alice James Books, 2004, by permission of the author. Copyright © 2004 by Catherine Barnett. Introduction copyright © 2009 by The Poetry Foundation. The introduction's author, Ted Kooser, served as United States Poet Laureate Consultant in Poetry to the Library of Congress from 2004-2006. We do not accept unsolicited manuscripts.

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  • t.k.ravindran
    September 24
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    family reunion

    read this wonderful poem.it is so nice and touching.enjoyed reading.
    thanx
    t.k.ravindran


  • Budart
    September 24
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    If it weren't for the notes I would have no idea what this poem was about.
    Who did the grand children go to sleep next to? i actually think this poem needs more specifics it has been stripped down past the point of comprehensibility.

    • ea silver member
      September 25
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      I agree that the poem is disappointing on a lot of levels - maybe not so much a lack in clarity- I think the kids are dragging their mattresses up onto the lawn to sleep near the drunk sister (their aunt) but the question is why. I can see that the father realizes he should never have encouraged any of them to start drinking but it's not that interesting a revelation and the only thing poetic I find in this piece is the final image of the old man waiting for his wife to come and lie down with him. That line has a poetic resignation to it.


  • Freiheit89
    September 24
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    awesome. made me cry


  • frownsnfreckles
    September 24
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    Sometimes less is more, not too much detail, no great explanations, just a breeze blowing round the edges of what can be felt as catastrophic from within.

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