Most of you will know that im not very uncomfortable with my body although I have an amazing boyfriend who thinks im as sexy as a goddess (blush) but I still wish to be smaller then I am I am a size 16 in Australian sizes and as many of you are of America you don’t know what that means our sizes go 6 8 10 12 14 16 18 20 22 24 26 28 n up
I used to be about a 20 now im a 16-14 maybe my body keeps changing shape just to be annoying grrr and I just wondered as I know many of you have problems about weight or are older then me so you may know some hints and I was just wondering I f you could impart some of your wisdom and knowledge onto me I really want to look good because if you have seen my picture I don’t really good that good could you help me?
Maybe
Just things of what I could do..
To make me as beautiful as others see me as..
Can you please help me
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Don't worry about it huns... Your beautiful, and aussie sizes are fucked.. hell im a 16 now.. go figure.
he'll love you no matter what, hes just that type of guy.
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Well Emmy I can tell you that american sizes are no better!!! I am about 5'4" and around 145 pounds and I wear anything from a size 5 to size 12!!! All depends on the designer and the store....drives me insane but ya know weight and pant size are not what is important, it is how we feel about ourselves!! When people ask me about my weight and I tell them they are shocked that I weight that much and dont believe me so
I guess that is all that matters....I carry it well and I carry it proud!!!
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awww but you are so pretty *hugs*
and gah....weight is the devil....always makes us feel icky. *hugs* -
You were born gorgeous and no one can take that away from you, even yourself. My grandmother used to think I was bulimic b/c of my small size (I am 6'4" and weigh 144 lbs.), but I'm not.
You have to come to a realization that you indeed are beautiful and that no size or no guy can change that. Whether you are slender or whether you are curvy doesn't make you less attractive, regardless of what some buffoon might say.
Remember - love doesn't walk away, people do
so if certain people can't be a part of your life b/c you don't meet their standards, that's their loss -
Just enjoy your body, austrlian sizes are crapy as i'm a beanpole and yet some of the sizes a wear are 16.
Just go and join a sport has that will keep you fit but let your body just settle down, some people have a more cruvy shape and no matter what they do it doesn't change.
But think if your BF thinks your a goddess then there must be alot of beauty there to see.
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Sweetie,
we all have things we see as wrong with ourselves...nothing and no on is perfect...but I do not believe size is the real issue for most of us...find funn clothes that make you feel good...new hair cut or color...try to see what others see in you and finds beautiful and find fun in it all...
Love,
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I can understand why you might feel the way you do...unfortuneately, in society today body image is perceived in size rather than content. We can all tell you a million, trillion times that what you look like is not the most important thing but who you are on the inside but until you feel that it's not going to matter. I have no idea what you look like. I know you based upon what you write and I see you as this beautiful person who feels deeply and is a true and genuine person. In my minds eye you are amazing and that's the truth.....I struggle with my own self-image. I grew up " skinny," so skinny I got called Olive Oyle...I had babies but always lost the weight. Now, facing chronic pain and other health problems I have been unable to exercise the way I once did and have gained weight. I hate it...it's still me inside just in a different body but it's hard to love this new image. My best advise....just try to embrace yourself for " who," you are not " what," you are. Maybe together we can both find the courage to love ourselves just the way we are. Sorry this turned into a novel.....just want to help! You hang in there! -
*eats my emmy* your beautiful darling
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*rauses eyebrows* stop eating me
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Love yourself for who and what you are instead of trying to change yourself. There is nothing wrong with the way you look, sweetie. It's not the outside that matters; it's the inside. If your boyfriend is happy, then why do you need to be smaller? How about you try and see what he sees, hmm'?
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