ok as you can guess im ugly now im with this guy sorta and he wwll he wants to get closer toi me ad be affectent , which i find really hard to do becaus ei feel so fat and ugly , this dribing him nuts beacuse ever time he tells me that he wants me and i alwyas say that he dsont i dont like saying this and i know he hates it when i contradite him with that but becasue i dono its really hard
i also dont know anythin about affection and touching beacuse i was never taught s i wont do anythin cuz im afried i will do it wromg or he wont like it
i ahve no idea what to do
any ideas
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Well I have a vast wealth of information on this subject as I use to talk to kids and teens and even young adults about this every day at a job! You first have to love yourself in order to feel beautiful and desired...if you dont than how can you expect to believe it when someone else thinks that you are??? Trust em when I tell you that we as women all have these "FAT" moments...they NEVER go away!!! I have had 2 babies and carry some pudge I never had before and my husband has NO bady fat and it all athletic and gorgeous but guess what?? He thinks that I am hot and that is all that matter right??? He thinks that every inch and every flaw is what makes me uniquely beautiful!!! So I am going to tell you to embrace your beauty as well as your flaws...easier said than done right?? Well sure I guess but it all goes full circle....cause when you can love yourself you can accept yourself for who and what you are...making it easier for another to do the same!! IM me anytime and I am willing to talk loves......But the bottom line is when you are READY to be intimate than that is when YOU should be!! NOT one minute sooner!!! And if he pressures you for more before you are ready than HE is the one with the problem and NOT worthy of you!!
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"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
No one can make you feel bad, if you don't let them. Right? Stay strong. Believe in yourself and others will follow. If you think you're "all that," then you are!
I do believe you are.
If you need to talk I'm just always around ta listen.
I'd normally say go with the flow... but unless your not ready to. DON'T. Follow both your heart and mind. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about dear.
Much love && Blessed be
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Aaaaaaaaaaw~This is a delicate topic and I imagine many layers to peel back before an answer comes to Light but as I say and will continue to mention:
go with what You feel and if You are not comfortable with this male touching You then maybe the timing it not quite there yet. This is an area where it cannot be forced for it can cause more damage than good
I think You are Beautiful but also I hope eventually You feel that You are comfortable in Your own skin
I imagine more ideas will come from different sources and You can digest which You feel tastes right
I wish You much Happiness Precious!!!
especially in the flesh that You wear
Love You for ALL You are and much more love & light~ Grammy Desire~*~
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If you do not feel comfortable with this guy maybe you are just not ready for that step. Trust me when you find people who really do love you they will make you feel beautiful and you will not have any trouble with affection.
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Likewise as ONELASTTHING sweetie. If you'd like I will message you later ( have to get ready for work ) tonight and I will tell you a bit of my story as I know exactly what you are going through and maybe it will help you. I know it doesn't help to tell someone, who doesn't feel pretty that they are pretty/ or beautiful etc....., let me know! HUGS Marie
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You can message me any time about this stuff hun. i'd be happy to help.
xx
-OneLastThing
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