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What to expect: College

The most important thing though, is to HAVE FUN. College makes up the best years in your life, so take advantage of it!
College... Wow girl, big step.  Take this from someone who knows.  It is tough.  Smarts isn't all that it takes to get by.  You need to work hard, actually study for the tests (if you already do this, you are a step ahead of where I was)  You are going to face a lot of decisions when you get there.  You are going to meet people and they are going to pressure you into doing things you aren't completely comfortable with.  Don't let them.  Don't give yourself away in any way unless you are ready to.

You are probably going to be away from home for a long period of time for the first time too.  This isn't as easy as you think it is.  You will miss your family like crazy; yes, even your father.  You will call your parents a lot... just don't call them too much; and eventually you will be so tied up with your new school life that you won't call them at all.  When it gets to that, remember to call them at least once a week, or they may think you died.

Your new friends are going to be great. They'll be fun, share your interests, go places with you, do things with you, but they will never replace the people who have known you forever.  They will make new inside jokes with you, they will create new memories, but you will sometimes need to call up your friends from high school or before and laugh about some dumb thing you guys did freshman year.  Your friends from home are your biggest link to the past and if you stick by them as you are gone, they will stick by you when you are down, heartbroken, or deeply in love.  Unlike the people you meet, they will never tire of about how much you absolutely *adore* that guy, and they will always be there to bitch out that annoying prick who won't get off your back.  Your old friends are best to cry to, to laugh with, to reminisce with, and never forget that.  It will be hard.  School will become home, and home will become a memory.  But never forget those who were there for you through good and bad times.  You will need them most.

Everybody will miss you, and have to watch from afar as you go on with your life. Make them proud!  Make them proud to know you as a person, as a friend, as a family member.  Make them proud to say 'I knew her when...'  The most important thing though, is to HAVE FUN.  College makes up the best years in your life, so take advantage of it!

Do great!
i hope this is good, i know something about losing people to school and going to school...

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  • DarkWithTeardrops
    April 24, 2006
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    ohhhh.. this is so good, i would have loved to have read this before i went to college.. everything got so mixed up for me in the first few weeks.. i dint know what was going.. at the time college seemed to be the worse thing in my life.. ruining everything..
    i had no one and nothing like this to guide me and tell me what it was going to be like..
    this was so good and informative.. i know that it will help many people about to go into college and i really hope they take notice of this before they start going through the confusion that i went through..
    things are much better for me now although i still dont like it.. but i guess thats just because college isnt the right thing for me.. i wish i had gone a different way about things.. i have never enjoyed group learning and not choosing exactly what i want to learn.. i have always learnt better by myself at my own pace.. but hey... thats just the way it is..
    this really is great, very useful..
    =) ~toni~

  • fluofontis
    February 13, 2006
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    thankye again! people move on very quickly and oftentimes do forget high school a lot, i have seen it tons of times, even in myself
    LP&CG
    Liz


  • Heartofacircle
    February 13, 2006
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    (my last write I have time to read) this was very interesting and yes college I bet can be fun but a lot do think about the ole days in highschool no doubt about that, very well writen here thanks for sharing this here, keep up the awesome poetry!!!