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The Bisexual Theory

Have you ever looked at someone of the same sex and got an odd momentary feeling in your stomach? That feeling you get from that of the opposite?
As I am presenting this to you, I know you may be thinking No, heck no. I have never thought that way about any of my friends.
But deep down everyone has those feelings at least once in their life, at least once a day; it is just your choice on whether you are willing to act upon those feelings and embrace you the true nature of our inner personal animal.


Bisexuality is one of the oldest and most common forms of sexuality. The definition simply states of an attraction to that of the same as well as the opposite sex. Although, most bisexuals do tend to lean towards one gender simply out of personal preference.

Sigmund Freud (Austrian Psychiatrist) theorized that every person has the ability to become bisexual at some time in his or her life. He based this on the idea that enjoyable experiences of sexuality with the same sex, whether sought or unsought, acting on it or being fantasized, become an attachment to his or her needs and desires in social upbringing.

Generally, adults view this experimentation as a simple part of growing into a young adult. Which are, by all means, perfectly natural feeling among humans, to want to experiment sexually. Personally I think you should experiment at least once, because how can you say you do not like something if you have not tried it?

And in bringing that up I also present this; we, as human beings are mammals and like mammals we have urges, as you all know.
For instance did you know some animals will choose intercourse with different sexes at different times in their life, and sometimes will perform intercourse with different sexes at random? Homosexual intercourse can also be seasonal in some animals, like male walruses (for example), who often engage in homosexual intercourse with each other outside of the breeding season and will revert to heterosexual intercourse during breeding season.
I know you so did not want to hear about the breeding habits of walruses but it had to be addressed.

Another interesting fact is that Krafft-Ebing (a sexologist by the way) was the first to suggest that bisexuality is the original state of human sexuality. Freud has famously said: "[W]e have come to know that all human beings are bisexual - - and that their libido is distributed between objects of both sexes, either in a manifest or a latent form." According to Freud, people remain bisexual all their lives in a repression to monosexuality of fantasy and behavior.
From an anthropological perspective, there is large variation in the prevalence of bisexuality between different cultures.
The point I’m trying to make is that it is not simply about sex, but attraction and most of all love. Unrequited love. It could be your best friend or the person next to you beginning with a simple hug of friendship or the simple act of a strand of hair brushing your skin the feeling is there. We have that one feeling of attraction and it has been proven that everyone has at least one homosexual moment a day.
Similarly, although evolutionary psychologists consider most humans are promiscuous by nature, the majority of American couples are faithful to their spouses, appearing essentially monogamous. These traits can be explained as the result of culture constraints on evolutionary predispositions.
Plus being simply gay or straight is just boring, at least when your Bi you can have a little diversity and as Woody Allen once said ‘Being Bi just doubles your chances of finding love…or getting date on Saturday night.’

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