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can you help?
i believe that i'm
'broken'.

hanging out with other people causes my self-confidence to shatter,
and i become irritable,
angry, and jealous.

i'm trying to become something that i'm not.
and i can't stop.
i want
to.

what's happening?

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  • Dienush Greeters member
    September 15
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    I'm sure there will also be people who will cause your confidence to boost. Try finding them?

    Everyone who is trying anything is trying to become something they are not. Yet. Are you sure you don't have it within you? It can be a matter of motivation. Or maybe you'll keep trying and succeed. Maybe you'll never succeed, but I think a positive attitude would help.

    The question is, how important is this to you?

    Or, can you not be accepting and proud of yourself just the way you already are?

    • tintinnabulation
      September 15
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      i think it's important to me.

      i lost something that was so important,
      vital even.

      but yes,
      a positive attitude is in order.

      • Dienush Greeters member
        September 15
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        If it's important, why give up?

        • tintinnabulation
          September 15
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          because i don't believe i'm able to win this person back.

          • Dienush Greeters member
            September 15
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            Ah, a relationship thing.

            It's hard for me to advice you there. Experience has shown me that patience can solve a lot of such things. When there was a very special person whom I couldn't get back, another one (or should I dare use the plural) came along and made me feel whole again. In another case of a person I thought I couldn't win to begin with, I just stood by a couple years and managed to do it. And when I lost another one and won him back, I realized after a few months I might have been better without him.

            So... hang in there? & just be yourself because that's the one thing you can do the best

  • The Slug
    September 15
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    ummmm.....I agree with Rainbow..I think other people probably would feel the same way if they over-thought things. Everyone has depth in different areas, that's the only way human interaction would be worth anything, I'm sure there's alot less to people than you might sometimes think and you could probably see things clearer than they do if you try to relax a little. Separate yourself and think things over- without getting caught up in other peoples...seemingly calm turmoils and social structure ect. I think the title of this column was bang on- just people..
    I dunno if I'm making any sense here, if I'm not then I hope you feel better about things.

    • tintinnabulation
      September 15
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      you're making sense.
      well, to me you are.

      i don't know.
      all i can do is try to work things out,
      but at least i know people care,
      even if i've never really met them.

      c:

      • The Slug
        September 15
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        Yeah, just keep trying, I'm sure things will level out anyway

  • oldschoolhero
    September 15
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    beleiving everything your mind things and the stupid things it does to make yourself seem superior and not inferior. and feel like you fit in, wether it makes you feel good or not its content: even though it might be in discontent.


    think, earnestly, about what you really are.
    and what your friends really are, think about their motives and in the end what really counts.

    "i might not know the meaning of life,
    but i definitely know what its not..
    for the sake of other people."

    <3

  • Rainbowgasm
    September 14
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    What's happening?
    You're being human.
    A human whose been hurt
    and is trying to recover.
    This is step one.
    It will get better.


    • tintinnabulation
      September 15
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      i hope it gets better.
      and fast.

      because i need to take caffiene in the morning to be happy.

      this is not who i used to be.
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