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Missing for a while

A note for all friends and family.



Dear all,

As most of you know, I am in the proses of changing careers, and at 43 that isn't easy. I have been working in casinos for 24 years, and have come to a stage in my life where I can no longer tolerate how these monstrosities impact on the local communities. If you want to know more please ask and I will tell you personally.

I have been offered a position in Johannesburg at Sun International head office as a "One Sun' facilitator. One Sun is a concept in customer relations and brand alignment for Sun International. This is a fabulous opportunity for an old man like me and one I can not pass up. (Sorry Desire, but I need to do this regardless).

The reason I am writing this is to tell you all that my time here will be extremely limited to around an hour or so a day. My itinerary for the next year is horrible, 16 hour days mostly. We have to reach every single employee in the company in 12 months and there are three of us.

I will speak to each of you separately about this as I do not want my girls to think that I am leaving them, I AM NOT. I will just be very quiet.

So many of you have been so wonderful to me, and I love you all equally.

I will miss writing everyday and hosting comps, I will miss laughing and joking with all of you. It seems impossible that I have only been here since February as this is my home and you are my family.

I will try to speak to each of you as much as I can, I promise.

I will be starting there in 2 weeks and in the interim I will be winding my time down here in Bloemfontein and spending time with family and friends in real life as I will miss them to, I will be leaving my life in Bloem and only be coming home for weekends, you can imagine the strain on my marriage that will create. Therefore when I am home I need to dedicate time here with my family, I have my eldest daughter coming to join myself and Jacqui soon and I want to give her everything I couldn't after my divorce.

Just wanted to say thanks and let you know that I love you and I will be here if and when I can.

Char, Luna, Abby, Emmy, Kari, Genna, Krystal and Molly.
I will always be your daddy and I will promise to try my best to either speak to you or leave you a message every day. Mommy will be here and can contact me.I will give you all my e-mail address so if you need me you just call. You can call me anytime and I will get to you as soon as I can and help you.

Kat...Thank you so much for everything, we have spoken at length about this already and I know you understand.

Jacks and Dave...My two Twins...I love you guys and will be sending my detail to Jacks anytime you need me Jacks ANYTIME!, Dave I will see as much as pos over the weekends.

Nyetta, Linda, Julie, Shanna, Desire, Criss, Margaret, JoJo,Clari, Milie, Karen Jet, Dorie...All of you my Sisters and all of you I love dearly ...thank you so much for the hours and hours of fun we have had together.

Nyetta and Linda..... Goona miss you two, look after each other and know that I love you both very much!

Julie, Thank you for being there and knowing my heart, you are very special and if I ever come home, I will be coming for that cup of tea.

Shanna, My heart will be with you the whole time my sister. I will pray for your recovery and know that I love you.

Milie..Study hard and never stop writing, Keep healthy and speak to me as much as you can on yahoo.

Jet..gonna miss messing around with you, I love you sis you make me smile!

Desire..I know you think that this is the wrong move for me but I need to go and find out. Opportunities come rarely at 43 and even more rarely when you are white in an African country. I will do my utmost to keep my work life and my family life balanced and I will continue to carry on helping my friends and family here. I love you my sister and thanks for being my ground!

 

Donna, Thank you for the limited time we shared, you are a special person and know that I really enjoyed your company and warmth.

Well that is about it....if you want to know more please ask authough my time here will be shorter and shorter as the days count down.

Simon...  

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  • Riftkin gold member
    May 22
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    I for one wish you the best dearest one.

    We meet, and click.
    now you must be off...

    such a way life goes
    fate has their own mind

    Joann
  • I'll get better. You told me to never give up, so I never will Best of luck on the new job. I love you!!!!!!

    Mylee
  • I love you Simon.
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  • Hope your move is a positive and prosperous one. May love and light travel with you wherever you may go. Will be thinking of you here Down Under... Many blessings, Lavender Butterfly... x
  • i love you dady ...
    read my im sorry daddy poem it says it all

    • unsigned gold member
      May 1
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      Don't stress ~ I will be there for you everyday and I will leave a message if I miss you...
      I will give mom my e-mial/msn/yahoo if you need me just shout. I am not leaving you just wont be here so much is all...
  • lol....well there is another shocker for today
  • With Love to you

    Simon
    My darling we know each others hearts, understand each other.
    Distance is no object when loving and caring for someone matters most of all.
    My UK house has its door's open anytime you need a place to crash or just a cup of tea.
    My on line message is also open to you for when ever you need me I will be there for you
    Keep your heart open and your mind.
    Love and treasure those who enter into your world.
    Friendships flourish, and heavy loads are eased.
    A shoulder to cry on,
    Love you xxxx take care xxx be happy and smile a smile for me sometimes xxx
  • well even if you dont miss me i'll miss you take care and good luck
  • I don't know what to say... don't worry about us here, we will be awaiting your return and new poetry... But I'm glad you are doing something to better yourself... ALWAYS make sure family comes first...
  • as you & I have already talked about. I support you also. I think that this is great opportunity and shouldn't be passed up. You will do great. Change is always a hard thing to have happen, but without change we grow stagnant in life. the whole point of being alive to live.. you'll always be a special person in my life, you know that.
    we are your family and your friends on here. we are always going to be here for you no matter.
    I've enjoyed the time that we shared together, it was wonderful and I look forward to many more.
    you need anything just contact me.. I'll do what I can.

    I will miss you too. I will be here where you need me.

    love you

    Kat
  • .... Now you got me crying. You make it seem like you are dying or something.
  • that is sad that you will be quite, that's not the resone we all love you.
    go kick butt at your new job!!!
  • Wishing you only the best of luck ~ take care of yourself and your family
  • You have me crying like a baby here. I will miss you terribly Simon. You were the first person here to take me under your wing, to show me true friendship and to extend to me the honor of meeting other wonderful people. Also thank you for all the support and encouragement you have given me. Take care of yourself and know my thoughts are with you always. I wish you the very best life has to offer. Gonna miss you like crazy..ok I can't see how to type anymore now..I love you my brother..
    Be well
    Linda
  • Well gee brother! don't make this sound like it's your WILL or anything!! I'm so happy for you! and I'm proud of you too! your taking a big step in your life right now.. and I'm sure that everyone will understand.. You have been supportive with everything that I have "tried" to do with my writing.. and you have actually pushed me to try things that I never thought that I would do! You are a strong person and I am glad and honored to call you family!! If you ever have time, when your on, just send a simple hello and I'll do the same.. It will mean the world and it'll make me smile, but only when and if you have time old guy! remember yogart is ok but cookies are better!! and tea is really good too!! eat healthy, but life is short so eat a lot of junk food too!!! love you brother mine!! I'll miss you thats for sure.. But you'll be back off and on, when you have time!! and I'll always be here. like the lame butt I am.

    I'll love you forever
    I'll like you for always
    As long as I'm living,
    My big brother you'll be!!

    Jetleena

  • imahealer gold member
    May 1
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    My brother,
    We all have to make decisions in life that impact us greatly. I support your decision, only because you are the one who ultimAtely knows what is best for you. I will be looking for you on line, and know seeing you here all the time, you will be greatly missed. I love you, my brother, and this is not goodbye, but hello new opportunity!
    XOXO
    Shana

  • I'll miss you so much my twin!! But I completely understand and totally respect what you are doing!!!

    I love you and will always be here for you too.. if ever you need.

    I wish you all the luck in the world with your new career... sometimes we have to move on and do these things.

    Love always
    You Twin
    Jacks
  • Best of luck. Even in the short amount of time I have known you, I enjoyed it very much. Hope to talk to you whenever you are not busy, but I do understand. Go for it! Good luck!
  • I hope everything goes well for you my brother, my raven. I will try to make you proud..

    Nevermore~

    I love you! Stay safe and be well.
  • It takes a lot of strength to do what you are doing. It's probably going to be very, very hard for the first while, but it's going to get easier.

    I know that Char will miss you very much as well.

    I wish you the best of luck in everything.
  • ill still miss you
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