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Vulnerable adults and abuse - how to spot it and stop it! (A COLUMN)

NO DESCRIPTIONS OF ABUSE!!!!
JUST SIGNS AND HOW TO STOP IT!!!!
ABUSE

Who is at risk of being abused?

Anybody can be abused. It is as simple as that unfortunately! It is important that we get away from the stereotypes that have been created through history - woman abused by men - this is not the case, not anymore at least.
Anybody can be abused and anybody could be an abuser.
IT’S A SCARY THOUGHT ISN’T IT!

There are some people that are more at risk than others though. This is children and vulnerable adults.

This article is not going to go into the detail of child abuse.

Who is a vulnerable adult?

‘A person aged 18 or over, who is in receipt of, or maybe in need of community care services by reason of mental or other disability, age or illness and who is, or may be unable to take care of him or herself or unable to protect him or herself against significant harm or exploitation’.

(No secrets - Department of Health 2000)



What is the definition of a vulnerable adult?

#An adult to whom accommodation and nursing or personal care are provided in a care home;

#An adult to whom personal care is provided in their home under arrangements made by a domiciliary care agency; or

#An adult to whom prescribed services are provided by an independent hospital, independent clinic, independent medical agency or national health service body.

#In relation to an adult who is not mentally impaired, means ill treatment or the impairment of health;

#In relation to an adult who is mentally impaired, or a child, means ill-treatment or the impairment of health or development.



What is the definition of abuse?

#The violation of individuals human and civil rights by any other person or person’s.

#It may consist of a single act or repeated acts.

#It may be physical, verbal or psychological, an act of neglect or omission to act, or it may occur when the vulnerable person is persuaded to enter a financial or sexual transaction to which he/she has not consented or cannot consent.

#It may occur through deliberate targeting or grooming or vulnerable people and may be carried out by individuals or groups of individuals.

#Abuse can occur in any relationship and may result in significant harm to, or exploitation of the person subjected to it.




What are the different types of abuse?

Physical abuse

Hitting, slapping, pushing, inappropriate restraint, kicking, forcing, squeezing, biting, suffocating, drowning and withholding or misuse of medication.

(Whilst the use of medication and restraint may be appropriate in some circumstances, the key issue is whether the use is beyond being reasonable or outside of any prescription or recommendation or is excessive and disproportionate to what is required in the circumstances)

Sexual abuse

Sexual remarks and suggestions, introduction to indecent material, indecent exposure, teasing, indecent assault, touching without consent, sexual intercourse and being forced to touch another person.

(This includes both contact and non-contact behaviour. To be deemed as abusive, this is done with no consent from the victim)


Psychological/Emotional abuse

Lack of privacy, lack of choice, denial of dignity, deprivation of social contact or the creation of deliberate isolation, making someone feel worthless, withholding love or affection, threatening, humiliation, blaming, controlling, pressuring, coercion and ignoring the person.


Financial or material abuse

Theft, embezzlement, fraud, the abuse of influence and power of friendship to persuade a person to make gifts or change their will.


Neglect or acts of omission

Not giving personal care, deliberate withholding of aids, withholding food, drink and light, not providing adequate or appropriate clothing, restricting access to medical services, denial of religious or cultural contacts, denial of contact with family or significant others and leaving alone and/or unsupervised.


Poor professional practice

Unsatisfactory standards - sloppy care. Pervasive ill treatment - gross misconduct.
This can include any of the methods of abuse.


Institutional abuse

Collective failure of an organisation to provide an appropriate and professional service to vulnerable adults.
This can take on various types of abuse including physical and emotional etc.


Stranger abuse

This can take on any kind of form of abuse and will warrant a different kind of response from that appropriate to abuse in an ongoing relationship or in a care location. Nevertheless, in some instances it may be appropriate to use the adult protection procedures to ensure that the vulnerable person receives the services and support that they need. Such procedures may also be used when there is the potential for harm to other vulnerable people. It may be appropriate to use local POVA (protection of vulnerable adults) procedures.


Harm

Should be taken to include not only ill treatment (including sexual abuse and forms of ill treatment which are not physical), but also the impairment of, or an avoidable deterioration in, physical or mental health; and the impairment of physical, intellectual, emotional, social and behavioural development.


Discriminatory abuse

Abuse where an individual or a group of individuals discriminate against a person or persons.


Spiritual abuse

This can include the misuse of:
#A position of power, leadership or influence to further the selfish interests of someone other than the individual who needs help.

#Authorisation: unconditional submission to leaders is expected.

#Averse to criticism: the person who dissents becomes the problem rather than the issue being raised

#Perfectionist: individual worth is determined by performance; there is no comparison for weakness or failure.

#Image conscious: protecting the reputation of the leaders or church is more important than truth or justice.

#Not allowing a person to express or practice their beliefs.

(This is often difficult to identify because its definition may be more of an issue of personal interpretation of practices. Others’ views and cultures should be respected.)


Domestic Violence

This can take on any form of abuse.

It is important to realise and remember that anyone can be the abuser and anyone can be a victim!

(Definitions courtesy of Cambridgeshire County Council)


When is abuse a criminal offence?

Examples of abuse as criminal offences (in Britain):

#Domestic violence

#Rape and other sexual offences

#Theft and fraud

#Some forms of discrimination


What are the indicators of Abuse?

#General changes in social and emotional behaviour

#Becoming withdrawn

#Agitation

#Anxiety

#Anxious to please

#Lack of eye contact

#Depression or confusion

#Isolation

#Exclusion from outside social contacts

#Lack of clothing

#Lack of access to financial resources

#Restriction of mobility due to the absence of aids

#Relatives may refuse to allow a person to have respite or personal care

#Difficulty in gaining access

So there are many general signs of abuse, but there are also more specific signs for each type of abuse. It is important to remember that some of these signs may be for other reasons and not at all mean that the person is being abused.

Physical Abuse:

#Multiple bruising that is not consistent with the explanation

#Multiple bruising of various stages of healing

#Abrasions, especially around the neck, wrists and/or ankles

#Unexplained burns, especially on the back of the hands

#Scalds, especially with a well defined edge

#Hair loss in one area, scalp sore to touch

#Unexplained fractures

#Deterioration of physical condition e.g. Malnutrition, ulcers and sores

#Cowering and flinching

#Frequent minor accidents without seeking medical advice

#Unusual lethargy or docility

#Frequent changing of GP (general practitioner) to another or from one care agency to another to avoid people spotting a pattern of physical indicators of abuse


Sexual abuse:

#Changes in behaviour e.g. Attention seeking, over sexualised behaviour or fixation on sexual matters

#Physical signs with no obvious medical explanation e.g. soreness in genital area/anal area, recurring thrush or cystitis, diagnosis or a sexually transmitted disease, bruising on the inner thighs or shoulders.

#Reluctance to receive personal care e.g. Objecting to being washed in genital areas; pushing carers away, getting distressed and refusing to undress or have a bath in front of somebody else.


Financial or material abuse:

#Sudden inability to pay bills

#Unable to explain withdrawals from accounts

#Unnecessarily poor living conditions (especially if they change suddenly)

#Personal possessions of worth going missing without a satisfactory explanation

#Someone has taken responsibility for all finances, but is clearly not doing so

#Unusual interest taken by friends or family especially if they have shown little concern in the past

#Family or other potential inheritors may put pressure on someone to refuse care services, including residential care.

#Unusual purchases unrelated to the known interests of the vulnerable adult.


Institutional abuse:

#Institutional abuse can result from poor morale, high staff turnover, sickness rates, excessive hours worked and frequent use of agency staff as well as poorly trained staff

#General lack of consideration for privacy e.g. staff enter patients rooms and just wash them and put them on the toilet - all the while their bedroom door is open and people can see in

#Residents seem unusually subdues

#Residents appear isolated

#Lack of care with personal clothing. This may include loss of clothes and people being dressed in other peoples clothes, spectacles and false teeth

#Poor hygiene e.g. an obvious smell of urine, residents have dirty clothing and staff change bed linen when the deem necessary

#Inappropriate use of equipment e.g. restraint devices such as chairs that are attached to tables and an overuse of bed rails.

#Medical and nursing practices - there may be a misuse of clinical practices such as over reliance on sedating medication, catheterisation and enemas

#Lack of communication between staff, staff and residents and staff and relatives.


Concerns, suspicions and allegations:

DON’T:

#Put it off

#Leave it to someone else to help the vulnerable person

#Be afraid to voice your concerns; the vulnerable person may need urgent protection and help!



OK, so, I just want to point out that a lot of this information has been sourced from training sessions that I have attended about Protection of Vulnerable Adults and information provided by my local council offices (here in Cambridgeshire, England).

A lot of it relates to a caring environment and may not apply to you or your loved ones, but the principle facts are all the same - the definitions, explanations and indicators are true in most settings.

This subject is very important to me!
It is important that we all raise awareness of the big issue that is abuse and try to deal with it that way.
If we know the signs then hopefully we can stop it before it gets out of hand!

Thanks for reading this article!

Sarah Louise Hudson




This is about abuse and vulnerable adults, how to spot the signs and how to stop the abuse.
I am just trying to raise awareness!
I did have this in the 'education' catergory, but when you hovered the mouse over the title it showed up as 'childrens' - strange

Thanks so much for reading this!

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  • forever and ever
    December 15, 2006
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    WOW

    This is an awesome page!! i never knew half of that!! thanks for posting this!! i really enjoyed reading it!!!


  • SarahD
    September 30, 2006
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    I'm guessing that you mean in general about getting away from situations like this?? Because really, in most situations it is quite easy to physically walk away, only problem is the psychological hold the abuser has over someone. Yes, I agree, I wish that this society didn't create abusive people, because it becomes a viscious cycle. Thanks for reading lil sis! Blissful Princess


  • Xxthe angry gothxX
    September 30, 2006
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    this really was an important thing to read. i just wish there are somethings we can do to get away from situations like this. i appreciate that you wrote this as well. it waqs very informative. thanks


  • SarahD
    September 9, 2006
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    I really hope so! Thanks for your comment and I'm so sorry that you can relate to so much of this!


  • DevonJM
    September 9, 2006
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    The Hammer

    Its sad to identify with all of this. Whats worse, to me is the fact that we need to be taught. I dont mind saying I honestly wish I had never been born in this existence. Maybe you will change a moment in each readers interaction with another human being, for the better.


  • SarahD
    July 16, 2006
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    You may think that, but really self abuse can be made up of any of the abuses that I listed, so really, I didn't. What did you think of the article overall then?? Sarah


  • Zev
    July 15, 2006
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    you seem to have forgotten the most insidious abuse of all...self abuse


  • SarahD
    July 14, 2006
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    Thanks so much!! Alot of it came from that training we went to - the facts and I added some of my own! Thanks for your comment!! Do you want to keep your real name to yourself on here or can I call you by your first name?? I don't mind either way! Sarah

  • Rockalongarhyme
    July 13, 2006
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    very knowingly written

    Sarah, this sounds so heart wrenchingly true to life, everything you have written is so spot on. Take it from one who understands exacty what you are saying.

  • SarahD
    July 7, 2006
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    thanks so much for your support with this matter!


  • cutiepie gold member
    July 6, 2006
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    Excellent

    I applaude you for your straight talking and hard hitting attitude in this column. Yes awareness is the key and I for one will certainly be putting this link on my profile


  • SarahD
    July 6, 2006
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    Thanks so much SW!!!! I really appreciate this comment!! Perhaps you can display the link on your profile page??? That would be great of you!

    allpoetry.com/Column/2108334

    Thanks again! sarah


  • SarahD
    July 6, 2006
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    Yes, you are so right, we have all be abused to different levels - that is why it is so important to raise awareness and stop it. Thanks for reading!! Sarah


  • SarahD
    July 6, 2006
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    Thanks so much for your wonderful comment and support Shaina Bird!! Much appreciated! Sarah


  • SarahD
    July 6, 2006
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    I am sorry that you have been through that!! It is difficult to narrow abuse down sometimes and those who have been through sexual and physical abuse have often endured emotional/psychological abuse too and don't realise it.
    Thanks for reading and commenting! I hope you are safe now! Sarah


  • PaintedParisPassion
    July 6, 2006
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    Inspirational

    Whoa, im extremely impressed! This is most definatly a topic that needs to get out there more, and we all need to be aware of it, too bad most people ignore something as serious as abuse, thank you soo much for sharing this, its inspirational, and i'm glad someone is trying to talk about it, i think if you get alot of people to read this the awareness will be raised, so thanks for sharing!!! IT was great!!!





    Keep Writing!

    SW


  • TimeSpinster
    July 5, 2006
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    Great idea. I think in one way or another, we've all be abused. It may not be sexually or phyiscally, but abuse is very common.


  • BeautifulBirdie
    July 5, 2006
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    I have been abused in my past. Sexually, physically, mentally, and emotionally. I think your column is a very good idea and I will be sure and put it on my profile.


  • Temperarily Insane
    July 5, 2006
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    I have been threw Sexual abuse "of the worse kind so yea"I didnt know all that about abuse.Ive been threw sexual and physical abuse

  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    Thanks so much for the encouraging comment Aun Ali!! Sarah


  • Aun Ali
    July 5, 2006
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    Good Work, very practical, bold, straight forward. Harsh but true and we need to be harsh as it's high time now. Hope you succeed in spreading your message All the best


  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    don't blame animals Nope, I know what you are saying! These abusers are much lower than animals!! Thanks for taking the time to read it!! Sarah

  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    Thanks so much Diana! Much appreciated! Sarah

  • Faded Dawn
    July 5, 2006
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    Damn abuse. Well the world is full of animals. As everyone else said, this is very informative, well done. ;-)


  • Dienush
    July 5, 2006
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    This is very informative and complex and it's always good to be aware of such things. Thank you for sharing.

    ~Diana


  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    B+ is excellent!!!!!!!!!
    Yep, financial abuse is one of the most common ones because usually carers look after the money for the patients and it is too easy to skim some (unfortunately). Obviously, I don't do it, but when my tenants are signing out their money for me to go and buy something, they don't even check the amount - like I said, it is too easy! Glad you learnt something new from this!!
    Thanks again!
    Sarah


  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    Are you really donielle?? not danielle??? that is nice and unusual!!
    Thanks for your wonderful comment on my column!!! Child abuse isn't really something I know alot about, but hey, I'll look into it!!
    What a suprise you got fired Covering their own backs. Next time you'll have to use some sort of anonymous whistle blowing system - hope fully there won't be a next time!!
    Thanks again!
    Sarah


  • Lady Altheia gold member
    July 5, 2006
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    Very informative and there was some thing in here that I didn't know like the financial abuse. I hope this column strikes more awareness in people about abuse. I wrote a paper my junior year on abuse. I got a B+. I thought I should have done better. Unfortuanately I don't have the paper anymore.


  • Donielle21
    July 5, 2006
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    This is a wonderful column. It is written for a wonderful cause and I hope that you receive all the views that you are hoping for. There are a lot of abuse situations that occur in the Nursing Home environment. I should know due to the fact that I am a CNA and work hands on with these wonderful people. I see the after effects when they are abused in their homes, or other facilities, then transfered to where I work. I have also been fired from one facility after a confrontation with a fellow employee I caught abusing one of my residents. Go figure I was fired. Anyways, I think that this could be better if you would also include child abuse. It is still a great write either way you want to put it.


  • Kari gold member
    July 5, 2006
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    WOW !!!!

    Wow.....I never knew that about spiritual abuse! I learned somethings I didn't know and it opened my eyes up to things to wow Now I got chills...thank you hun for this awesome piece and making me see somethings I didn't know!


  • Master Warious
    July 5, 2006
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    THANK YOU!!!!

    *Claps*
    Bravo! Very informative!
    Thank you for taking, what must have been a very long time, to look up and type and submit this and then spend points to promote this piece.
    I'm definetly linking this from my blog ('Cause I don't have a website)
    Thank you once again for this piece!
    I'm gonna be heading to college away from home so this is really helpful information for me.


  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    Thanks so much rae! It is an ugly subject and we must continue to raise awareness! Sarah


  • B Chandler
    July 5, 2006
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    This is a nothing new issue that Ive been seeing all my life. True and granted that I, too, have written something about abuse as well. Keep up the good work on awaring others who are bias/nonchalant about this ugly issue

    Rae


  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    Thanks so much Desire - I'm sorry to hear about you nan going through that!! Glad you found this useful! I'm asking people to put a link to it on their page if they are willing, just to raise awareness - so if you are willing, please do! thanks again, sarah


  • Desire gold member
    July 5, 2006
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    Excellent

    Thank YOU for sharing this valuable information!!!
    It is heartwrenching to hear and read about those adults who are abused in all the forms that you have spoken of...
    My grandmother, bless her heart and rest her soul...was a victim of spiritual abuse...the misuse of power for personal gain...
    Taking from her financially...but not giving to the church..but in his own pocket...
    Needless to say, he no longer preaches...

    Appreciate all the time you took to put this all together!!
    Thank YOU again!!
    This affects all of us in one form or another~~

    Many blessings to YOU always
    and much love~ Desire~*~


  • myrataal silver member
    July 5, 2006
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    Dearest Sarah

    This is an informative and well-constructed write. Thank you for taking the time to post this. Social awareness is important and this write enhances understanding of the topic.

    Thank you!

    Myra


  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    Thanks so much SF! I'm gonna try and get people to post a link to it on their profile pages - interested???


  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    Thanks so much Master - of - shadow - coming from someone who knows, it means alot!! I hope you are out of it now!!! If not, you must tell someone - it is NEVER the victims fault - there is NO excuse for it!! Take care, sarah


  • SarahD
    July 5, 2006
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    Thanks so much for your comment LP!!! It is tragic and we really need to raise awareness!! Sarah


  • July 5, 2006
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    A great column that means something! Thank you so much for posting this for us all, Sarah!


  • master-of-shadow
    July 5, 2006
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    i want to congratulate you on both writing and posting this. speading awarness and educating people is the only realistic way that abuse can ever be prevented/stopped. I know what it is like to go through abuse, and i know what it is to go through everyday just wishing for someone to notice, for someone to realise what was happening and for someone to do something about it... but being too afraid to do anything myself, beleiving that no one would beleive me or that they would agree with what was happening saying it was my own fault and i deserved it.

    raising awarness is such an important thing and this peice of writting does that well, not only describing what abuse is but also explaining that *anyone* can be responsiable and *anyone* can be abused. fantastic peice


  • requiempoet gold member
    July 5, 2006
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    I did a report on abuse, spent a whole semester on it actually. Saddening really, most people just don't wanna hear it.

    Rosita

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