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  • black rose society
    Nov 6 9:55 AM
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    have you ever loved someone who was older than you and everyone despised you for it well...i have and i am currentley doing that rite now idk wat to do gimmie advice!

  • Erik Ambrose
    November 6 ↑
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    Get thee to a nunn'ry

    • black rose society
      November 6 ↑
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      huh

      wat?

    • heavyhorse
      November 8 ↑
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      If you don't get the Shakespeare reference, you're too young to date anyone who is over the age of twelve, possibly making exceptions for the mentally/physically/mentally and physically handicapped.

      Also you like ICP.

      Though, if you really, truly like the guy, I'd recommend you take him on a nice holiday. Cliff diving in the Grand Canyon, perhaps. You first.

      • Matt Holck
        November 8 ↑
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        exceptions for the mentally/physically/mentally and physically handicapped.

        those who don't attend the church of england

  • Matt Holck
    November 6 ↑
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    true, age is just a number

  • S Lexington
    November 7 ↑
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    and neither are as important as the moment in which we currently reside!.......

    well, that's my spiritual epiphany over with.
    til next year.

  • AutumnEffect
    November 8 ↑
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    Hello

    If both you and your partner are well comitted to one another and truly want to be with eachoher, then the odds are that the two of you are able to work it out. I'm not saying jump into it and go crazy and care-free, because they're consequences to it but, I'm also not telling you(and him)to ignore your feelings for eachother because if anything, that's not an easy task to do. Trust me, I'm in the SAME situation. Age is just a word i agree totally. But, just as long as the two of you really are into eachother then, by all means, enjoy your time as one.But, be careful and cauntion. Some people are against situations suchs as yours(and mine). If anything though, it's your buisness and your partners, no one elses.
    I hope this helped, and good luck

  • JustTellMeWhy
    November 8 ↑
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    i agree with Autumn! age doesnt matter as long as ur careful and really like them

  • S Lexington
    November 8 ↑
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    i think it depends on the age gap. i mean if your happy and all great. but theres a point where it gets wierd. i think the question is really just how old is too old because i know this chick whose brother is like 28 and hes dating 70-something year old. part from that it all g

    • black rose society
      November 9 ↑
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      i agree!

      NO HE IS 22 AND I AM 16 BUT..I JUS MOVED TO THIS TOWN AND ALREADY EVERYONE IN IT THINKS IM 20 (WTF) BUT BESIDES THAT I THANK YOU FOR THE COMMENT AND ADVICE I HIGHLY APRECIATE IT! THANK YOU


      ~JAYDAS~

  • CelticQueen
    November 9 ↑
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    If he is 22 and you are 16, then you are jail bait for him and age is more than just a word. If you really care for him, you'll take that into consideration and stay away from him. There are realities to be considered for the future far more important than your current infatuation. Sometimes, you show your love more by giving someone up than by insisting on being together. This would be one of those times.

    celtic queen

  • black rose society
    November 10 ↑
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    yes this is true and yea i love him and i have tried telling him ill wait but he insists on staying with me but there are times when he is like paranoid=( sometimes i think he is just gonna end it=(

    • Boson Higgs
      November 11 ↑
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      If he is trying to own you and controll you, then he is probably not the guy you'll fall in love with, and get married, and live happily ever after... unless you like that kind of thing- falling in love with idiots etc.

      He sounds like a bit of a tool (idiot) actually.

      Here is a test for you sweety-

      Tell your man-

      "Hey lover! there is some guy here on Allpoetry who says you are a tool (idiot, etc)..."

      If your man tries to forbid you from reading anything I might write about him, ever again, here at Allpoetry?

      Then he is probably a bit of an idiot, and not good enough for you, you can do better than him sweety.

      Cheers!
      Toby.

  • Boson Higgs
    November 11 ↑
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    How old is old?

    And is he richer than you?

    If you're 16yo, old guys will buy you lots of nice stuff, if you're pretty.

  • lmae123
    November 11 ↑
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    Age is nothing but a number.

    I am 12 years old. I am already a professional actress and on my way to publishing a book. Still some adults haven't done this. This just proves age is nothing but a number.

  • S Lexington
    November 11 ↑
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    I say don't publish til you're 50. Actually i think that was maybe chinese poets that don't publish til 50. wise men.

  • jessicabuzz
    November 17 ↑
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    I think it depends how old, i think a six year gap at sixteen is crazy... but each to his (or her) own i guess.
    if you love him truly then stay with him but dont be surprized if you get your heart broken. i personally wouldn't put my money on a relationship like this but everything is possible and the impossible tends to pop up every now and then too.
    Its always better if the guy is older as well because people tend to look at a older girl dating a younger boy a tad weirdly, so that is a plus.
    my advice is not to care about what anyone else thinks about you loving him, its your heart, your life and your boyfriend.
    good luck
    xx
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