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Opinion Is Needed Here....


  • Ms.struggle
    Aug 19 8:11 PM
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    Ok say you have a friend.And your so close to that friend your like bother and sister or sister and sister.Until one day out of the blue they decide to change on you and not have anything to do with you anymore.Or say when they get a girlfriend or boyfriend and they just leave you for them.I mean can ya'll give me an opinion because i been seeing this alot lately.Because i always thought if your bestfriends with that person your suspose to be there number 1 person no matter what it comes down to besides your family.And how come you spent your time and friendship with that person and they dont even care???.....
  • I thought your post said "Onion is needed here" at first...drat! And I have all these onions to spare!

  • C3-gerbert
    August 19

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    maybe you should just ask them why they aren't talkin to you. ask them what you've done wrong

  • Chickpea
    August 20

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    Talk to them.

    Secondly - why do people always say as close as a brother or sister? Me and my sister never talked about anything, me and my brother fought heaps. Sounds to me now you aren't close you are more like brother and sister.

    • Calanthe
      August 20

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      "Forty thousand brothers could not with all their quantity of love make up my sum" etc.

      Chekhov made humourous references to these 40,000:

      "drunk as forty thousand brothers"
      "stupid as forty thousand brothers"
      etc.

    • nicki1
      August 20

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      My brother is a best friend to me. If I have something to tell someone I always tell him first. So, in some cases the saying makes sense...
  • I'm far closer to certain friends than my brother or sisters. To be fair, they are four, six and nine years away from me.
  • I understand exactly what you mean as this has happened to me many times, one of the most hurtful ones is currently in action as my step-cousin is deciding she doesn't want me anymore and there's not much I can do about it as I'm in Michigan and she's in South Carolina. It hurts, yes. Sometimes you just can't stop them. If what the two people had was REALLY and TRULY a special friendship then they'll come back, they always do. If not...maybe it was for the best. Part out it's that "You don't know what you've got til it's gone" thing and some of it's "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't come back it was never yours to begin with."
  • wait , talk to them, if they don't respond , pr continued ignoring you///they aren't worth it , find a better friend :S

  • IxAMxUNICORN
    August 20

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    "Opinion Is Needed Here...." Yusss! I have LOTS of those!
    I don't feel like reading what you've written. So I'm going to go with... either yell at somebody or break/burn something. It's a pretty well rounded good-for-all solution.
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