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i like my best friend.....!


  • LiL-KeLSeY-KLASH
    Jun 25 3:21 PM
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    Ok, so im really starting 2 like my best friend,and im not sure wat i should do. Everyone says that he really likes me, but im afraid that if he doesnt it will mess up our friendship. Like i kno someimes it works out but toher times it doesnt. && wat if it doesnt..?

  • ForeverLastingComa
    June 25
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    well when your letting him know tell him how you feel about him and then be like i don't want to mess up our friendship but i do like you..i rather love and loose than never to love at all

  • Benji Ballerina
    June 25
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    Been there. Not worth it. Remain best friends and move on.

  • pixieland
    June 25
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    Friendship over romance everytime. It might happen naturally anyway, so don't force it.

  • Foolish Mortal
    June 25
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    Don't bother. You'll have tons of boyfriends and only a few good male friends. If you break up it'll be impossible to be normal friends.
    you want to stop liking him you just don't let yourself think about him.

  • Iambenign
    June 25
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    Don't listen to them. Sleep with him. Then decide.

    • Ford Galaxy
      June 25
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      Yes.

      She ought to sleep with all his friends first, though.

      • Iambenign
        June 25
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        What are you hiding under that bonnet?

        • Ford Galaxy
          June 25
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          A love machine.

          • Iambenign
            June 25
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            That sounds too mechanical for my liking.

            • Ford Galaxy
              June 25
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              Don't knock it 'til you've tried it.

              • Iambenign
                June 25
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                Slow down! I'm still learning to drive...

                • Ford Galaxy
                  June 25
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                  That sounds like fun.

                  Umm, let me give you some tips! There's that 'mirror, signal, manoeuvre' thing... then there's... oh, I forget. Most of what you learn is a huge waste of time. Once you've passed your test, you'll never use your mirrors or make any signals again... unless you see a police car... then you might consider indicating.

    • Beautiful-Disater
      July 6
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      That is not the answer to everything and plus it would just make things awkward for her and him unless alcohol is involved

    • Chickpea
      July 7
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      If I had some kind of tv show I would offer you a place as 'Don't do what I say' guy.

      • Iambenign
        July 7
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        And you could be "I take everything too serious" girl.

        • Chickpea
          July 7
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          Not everything, I don't take you seriously.

          • Iambenign
            July 7
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            Ah, you seem to have finally caught on. This is a happy day.

            • Chickpea
              July 7
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              I will never catch on! (My hand/eye co-ordination is crap on a stick).

  • taylordw
    June 25
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    yeah you should keep it cool i mean tell him that he is a really awsome friend and u dont want to lose him then tell him u think u like him as more than a bud

  • crimsonclover711
    June 25
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    Just try to wait it out or maybe give subtle hints. But it's probably not worth the awkardness if it doesn't work out (that's what happened to me). But if ultimately you make the decision to tell him. If you really think it's right then just do it!

  • shattered-soapbubble
    June 26
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    Yeahhhh OR you could do the same thing me and my best guy friend did: Make this great deal that if you're both not married by the time you're 45 you'll just call it quits and marry each other. Like the last-minute backup option thing.
    You can then avoid the 'gosh, I just got dumped and now I'm totally going to die alone' thing for the rest of your life!

  • RatherSpiffing
    June 26
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    I'm in love with and going out with one of my best male friends. It's great, I can talk to him sooo easily about anything.

    Also, he has been out with good friend of his before and he always settled back into the friend role when they'd broken up. I suppose it depends on the person though.

  • LiL-KeLSeY-KLASH
    July 5
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    hey!

    well, i loved everyones advice. but i've decided that i love him as a brother & i dnt want 2 mess that up. so im jus gonna keep quite about it. & i got 2 thinking & i think that i liked the idea of us alwasy having fun when we hang out, but not actually dating. byt thanks. =]

  • Beautiful-Disater
    July 6
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    Going trough the same thing but i wont be much help XD. We are just being stupid and well i am so not gonna go into this . I would beat around the bush to see if he like syou or just ask him. If you guys are close enough it shouldnt be to bad.

  • positive anarchy
    July 6
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    Once, I was in love with a friend and before I said anything, she had me naked...

    You should hang out with my friends babe.
    ~Hippie

    • Chickpea
      July 7
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      Life as a hippie is so much easier. I've never had a problem asking friends out, and when a friend asked me out and I wasn't keen nothing happened, we are still friends. But this could be because of my amazing capacity to ignore awkward social situations or signals other people are giving me, good in this situation, bad in others.

    • LiL-KeLSeY-KLASH
      July 7
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      ahaha ur friends sound fun. most of mine r like that.
      =]

    • LiL-KeLSeY-KLASH
      July 7
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      thats true. well he acts like he does. but it sntr matter im not gonna stress about ti or anyhting. & im not gonna push him, i'll be happy with whatever happpens. cuz hes a good friend & i dnt wanna mess anything up. =]

  • Freak-in-BlackJeans
    July 8
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    WEll, what I did is just wait for him to make the first move. Once he does (which he will if he likes you) then you continue.

    The same thing happened to me and my current bf, and I haven't regretted a minute! (and he says that the only thing he regrets is not telling me his feelings sooner) lol

  • taintedsunshine
    July 9
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    Awwwww... I like one of my best friends too... I told him how i felt and he felt the same.We agreed to be friends first, romantic 2nd. Maybe u could try the same thing with him. I get where ur coming from tho. I was scared of messing up mine and his friendship too but Im glad i told him how i felt now. Take it slow and see how it all turns out. Good luck, love!

  • FaeryFallenAngel
    July 9
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    Tried it. You know what? Now I feel like I hate him to bits. Friends > couple-hood > broke up >tried AGAIN > broke up > feel like I hate him.

    No, you don't want to go through a similar experience where the end result is a lot of grief and a screwed hairstyle because you went mad and cut your hair. Stick with being best friends and nothing more. Who knows...it might come about on it's own time.

    Good luck.

    --Aden

  • XXbrokenXXheartedXX
    July 10
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    i went for my best friend and we have been dating for 2 years

  • LiL-KeLSeY-KLASH
    July 17
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    so, most of u guys were right. he told em that he did like me. & that he wanted 2 get with me but he was afradi he wasnt good enough =(.
    but he didnt tell me if he does but he kinda acts like it.so idk...watever happens happens.=)
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