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  • joleahe
    Jun 24 3:12 AM
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  • Fairies on Fire
    June 24
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    Tell him about the curfew. I'm pretty sure that he'll reach the same conclusion as you would; that its better to restrain yourselves now and stick to the curfew than to not be able to talk at all.
    Just stick it until you move out to get married/live with him/whatever it is your arrangments are.

    • nicki1
      June 24
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      You've left lots of helpful comments recently. Well done to you!

      ... I just thought some positive reinforcement was in order to ensure that you continue. Maybe I'll start my own problem thread...

      • Fairies on Fire
        June 24
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        See! I'm not always arbitarily mean to people!

        Yes, yes, tell us all about your problems. I'm dusting off the therapist's couch as we speak.

        • nicki1
          June 25
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          I never thought anything of the sort!

          Well, um, *sometimes* it takes me twice as long to straighten my hair and I have to rush to get the bus! Life is so unfair.

  • Meganandarainbow
    June 24
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    What?! I thought you were pregnant a while ago?!

    • Zanny
      June 24
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      We went through a short time were almost everyone was getting pregnant. Remember?

    • joleahe
      June 24
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      what are you talking about??????????

      • Meganandarainbow
        June 25
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        I swear you posted here a few months ago saying you were pregnant.

        • joleahe
          June 25
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          nope i was never pregnant you must really have me confused with someone else plus i hardly post here at all...i just wanted to know other peoples opinions on this

  • -BlackKnight-
    June 24
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    She's your mother, you're still a minor.

  • Shiori-The-Creator
    June 24
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    Maybe you should talk to your mom about the curfew. Tell her about your strong feelings for him and how SHE would probably do the same, and she might soften up and lengthen the curfew.

    • Foolish Mortal
      June 24
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      Dude midnight is late. She's got plenty of time.

      • joleahe
        June 25
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        no ok...i have 3 hours....thats enough? i love talking to my fiance

        • Foolish Mortal
          June 26
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          I thought you meant Nine AM as you never specified you really have no reason to be sarcastic.

  • shattered-soapbubble
    June 24
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    Complain about it on a website. Burn stuff. Start wearing more eyeliner. Slam some doors.
    Because, as you probably have already discovered, trying to reason with your mother, who loves you, would require actual effort.

  • Benji Ballerina
    June 25
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    Look up the emancipation laws of where you live. My boyfriend's trying to get emancipated so he doesn't have to go back south when he leaves the state hospital.

  • Ford Galaxy
    June 25
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    That doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship. You ought to find yourself a local lad.

    • joleahe
      June 25
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      why doesnt it sound like a healthy relationship????

      • Ford Galaxy
        June 26
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        You're 16 and have a fiancé who lives hundreds of miles away? Have you even met him? How long do you think Internet/telephone contact will last before one of you grows up?

  • shattered-soapbubble
    June 26
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    I don't think you understand what it means to be engaged.
    When you become engaged to somebody you're saying 'I'm completely ready to marry you, right here, right now." And you're not. You're still complaining about how your mom won't let you talk on the phone for as long as you want.
    I'm sure you guyses is like the cutest couple since Fred and Barney but... it's unrealistic.

    • joleahe
      June 27
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      ok now thats not your business...and actually im completely ready to marry him and i do love him....im not complaining about that im complaining about her cutting off all contact with him....which is a pretty good reason to get upset in my opinion and mind your own business about how my relationship is....im not your typical teenager and im sick of being treated like one...i know what im doing

      • Meganandarainbow
        June 27
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        If you don't want peoples opinions because you believe it's not their business then why post a thread about it? To me, you're obviously not the grown up you like to think if you wont take on board other peoples opinions.

        You are not in love. What is the point in being engaged at this age anyway? Why don't you just wait (Completely contradicting myself as I won't wait til i'm 18 to get my tattoo) But thats different! Tattoos don't end in divorce!

        If you really do think he is your love then just get one of those promise rings...I saw some nice ones in Argos...If only I had a 16 yr old fiancé to buy me one.

        PLUS. How the hell are you going to afford getting married? Make your parents pay for everything. Yeah...Well mature.
        You can't possibly make a life changing decision at 16.

        (And, one more dig 'mature' people don't mock others spelling errors...that's just childish.)

    • joleahe
      June 27
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      oh and by the way honey....its "guys" not "guyses"

  • allaboutyou
    June 27
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    hmmmmmm

    This all is so simple. But everyone has to make it seem so difficult. Ok time for me to be brutally honest, If your so-called bf cared for you really he'd respect your mothers wishes,if he cant respect her wishes then you know he will never really respect you. Don't disrespect your mother she is very generous to even give you three hours to talk to him. Be thankful for her,SHE IS THE ONLY MOM YOU'LL EVER HAVE! Family last 4ever,dont let some guy destroy your relationship with your parents,it's not worth it! I DO KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT. I have alot of experience. Guys and girls come and go,You will find someone where you live just be patient.

  • allaboutyou
    June 27
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    ALSO

    You really are NAIVE to say your ready for marriage,because I know your not. I once thought the same,but not anymore. I mean Im almost 20, Im still young, And you are still a kid, You aren't even considered an adult yet by law. So enjoy being 16, Dont throw everything away over some FANTASY OF A RELATIONSHIP. ITS NOT EVEN REAL! Sorry you need the truth and thats what I'm giving you. So Again your just a kid still in high school, You still need to mature. YOU REALLY NEED TO LISTEN TO YOUR MOM MORE! MOTHER KNOWS BEST!
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