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awwww ur so cute. the same thing with me. the love dosent go away its not up to you.
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I would still love him, but I would just stop showing it.
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Well, if you just automatically stop loving someone after your feelings are unrequited, then it probably wasn't love in the first place.
Your feelings won't just go away, if they're not returned.
If after some amount of time has passed, then you'd get over it. -
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so true. I was going to write the same thing. You can't just stop loving someone. Eventually it might fade some, I don't know if it ever completly goes away though.
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You would wake up to see that the love is not returned and though it will hurt, the mind with sort it through as the computer does, burying it among hidden files. The life will continue on with maybe an occasional reminder of what was in the past but will never be part of the future. Good luck.
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No matter what, if you really loved them in the first place, its not going to stop b/c they dont love you back. It just doesnt work that way.
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I had to vote on this because it goes both ways... Just because you love that perosn and do not get it back the way you expect it too doe snot mean they do not love you back... their are many different types of love and their are many different ways of expresisng love so that is why I voted yes
Interesting poll though
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yes, i suppose i would...you can't decide who you love or when you love them...and you can't decide if you won't love them anymore or not...that's up to fate...even though it may seem foolish to do, you can't change your heart
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Everyone will tell you that "you'll always love him or her," but it's not true.
You will move on. You will find someone new to love. Being in love for an extended period of time takes maintenance, effort, etc. And while you may care for someone, if he or she isn't trying because they're not interested, and you're not trying because they're not interested, then everything will just dissolve, including your feelings of love for the person. Because love involves expectations, hope, commitment, and if the person makes it clear that they're not interested, you will eventually want to and hopefully find someone else. -
I would give it up.
After i realize they're not going to love me back, then I shouldn't waste my time on it. -
Personally, Yes I would still love them, if I truly love that person, I would love them no matter what the circumstances!
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If its really love than it wouldn't matter if they loved you or not you would still love them
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You can't control love.Ive been in love 3 times.The first two times i was lucky to have anything more than raw phisical attraction.This time i know im in mutal love because he never stops telling me how much he loves me.But i still have loved before even if i havent been loved before.
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I guess to answer the question one needs to decide if they mean love as an emotion or love as a verb. "Love" is seriously one of the most over-used and misused words in the English language.
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Just coz the love isn't returned doesn't change your feelings. It just hurts. For me love is some thing magical but painful if it isn't returned. It hurts me to be around someone every day feeling things towards them having to grin and bare it when there with some one else but still loving them coz their still the same amazing person I fell for even if my love isn't enough. ok depresssing rant there sorry. lol. x
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of course. the whole point of love is to be devoted no matter what. if they don't feel the same wy, doesn't mean your love for them means nothing. they might not have the same feelings as you, but they must feel something for you. so accept that, and go with it.
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I'd be stuck loving them anyway, even if they're a complete jerk. Lucky me, right?
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you will always love them. You will hear their name and forget to breath in for a moment, and smile a little when your alone, look at their picture when ur having a bad day and feel alright. You will always shake a little when they are there and if it's reall love, if u truly love them like nothing or no one else, you could be 35, and hear the name and think, my god what coulod have been, before going on with ur life. It's love, you didn't choose it. it chose you.
Personaly say we shoot cupid and see how he likes it! -
It's happened to me but I just got over it.
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Loving someone is intense and no matter what, you will love them. Even when they don't love you back. All it changes is that it hurts more to keep loving them. But I'd do it anyway.
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If you say no, then you never truly loved him/her at all. Love does not just vanish, and it sometimes never even fades. Whether they return your love or not, if you love them, you always will
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The emotions wouldn't change, but would fade with time.
The way it was expressed might; once they are clearly not interested, keeping to respected boundaries would help salvage everyone's self respect. They would be more likely to like/respect the lover than if the lover went round stalking/throwing themselves at them. -
I don't know if the person I love doesn't 'love' me. I mean, he's a good friend. And even if he doesn't say it alot, he does love me. Just.. not romantically, not the way I'd like him to.
I can't decide really if they poll choices convey my opinion, but... -
I love him and he is with my friends. Dx She knows I like him and went out with him anyway, Were not talking. .__. It hurts.
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Ever hear of unrequited love?
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Well DUH!
It doesn't end just because they don't love ya back. That's like saying... you're hungry, and the food isn't ready to be eaten, so are you going to stop being hungry? It's like, ridiculous! NoOf course I'd still love 'im. It's happened to me before; was dating a guy, loved the fuck outta him, but he had... other plans. So he left, and he stopped giving a damn. I didn't. I still called, tried to be "friendly" and cool and what-not, but my feelings never ended. It's... impossible to make them. You can't MAKE yourself stop feeling something. It's only natural! -
True love never dies guy!
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I will never stop loving him.
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it doesn't matter if the person you are in love with doesn't return that love because no matter what your gonna love that person
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Yeah, why not?
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It's a grey area...
What would the definition of "love" be? A bunch of teeny boppers running around holding hands saying "I love you, will you go out with me?" or is it a relationship that grew and formed into a further intimate connection? Why must one label something so powerful? I'm not gonna get into my whole theories on psychology and human behaviors/tendencies but I believe true love is somewhat unfathomable for many humans. Look around yourself! Romantic movies are beginning to portray infidelity and give it a "loving" twist. How disturbing is that?
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